{"id":10739,"date":"2018-12-07T16:47:02","date_gmt":"2018-12-07T16:47:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=10739"},"modified":"2020-05-14T15:11:13","modified_gmt":"2020-05-14T15:11:13","slug":"wife-regretting-after-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wife-regretting-after-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"Wife regretting after divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 02675<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by: Maulana Imran Mughal <\/strong> <\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion:<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAsalamualaikum.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tMy question is I asked my husband for a divorce a while ago. Now I miss him so much.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIt has affected me mentally and physically due to which I'm always crying and regretting about the divorce. <\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tI want him back but his 50\/50 about it. <\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tWhat Islamic ways should I use to try and convince him about taking me back? Is it allowed for me to propose to him or send someone to talk to him as about it?<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t\u0628\u0650\u0633\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0645\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0650\u064a\u0652\u0645<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tDivorce is a big matter and it should be considered carefully before carrying it out. Sometimes spouses do not realize the benefits they enjoy with each other and in a rash manner decide to get divorced, this should not be the case. <\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tRather contemplation, <\/span><\/span>istikharah<\/span><\/span> and dua to Allah should be made beforehand.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIt is allowed for you to propose yourself or even send someone to him to talk about getting married again. Try to highlight the benefits of getting back together and such so that hey may further incline to get married. <\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnother beneficial way is to gather the elders of both families and discuss the matter collectively to arrive at a solution.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAt the end of the day if he is still persistent on not getting married then that is his choice.<\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnd Allah SWT alone knows best.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by Maulana Imran Mughal<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tChecked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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