{"id":11386,"date":"2019-06-25T16:45:10","date_gmt":"2019-06-25T16:45:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=11386"},"modified":"2020-05-19T12:51:09","modified_gmt":"2020-05-19T12:51:09","slug":"limitations-of-husband-and-wife-interactions-before-the-walimah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/limitations-of-husband-and-wife-interactions-before-the-walimah\/","title":{"rendered":"Limitations of husband and wife interactions before the walimah"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 02863<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by: <\/strong> Maulana Imran Mughal\u200b<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAssalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tMy question is about what really constitutes the consummation of marriage? <\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tThis question is of immense cruciality to us because we do not want to miss out on the great Sunnah and Barakah of Walimah, and I've heard one should perform their Walimah within 1 or 2 days of consummating their marriage. So what would be our limitations of intimacy during this 6 months duration between Nikah and Rukhsati?<\/p>\n

\tI've come across three different takes on consummation:
\n\t1- The act of intercourse
\n\t2- Khalwa al Sahiha, what I understand is when a man and woman are in seclusion in a way that nothing can hinder them from performing intercourse.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t
\n\t3- A mere touch of desire can also be considered consummation<\/p>\n

\tIf the third is true, can a husband not even hold her wife's hand, hug her, kiss her in a place when a door may be open but no one's around?<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t\u0628\u0650\u0633\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0645\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0650\u064a\u0652\u0645<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t             <\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn the name of ALLAH the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tOnce the Nikah is complete, it is allowed for the husband and wife to be intimate with each other in any way, whether before the rukhsati or after. That is because the custom of rukhsati is not a condition for the validity of Nikah.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tThere will be no limits to your intimacy during the 6 months you have specified.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnd Allah SWT alone knows best.<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by Maulana Imran Mughal<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tChecked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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