{"id":11911,"date":"2019-09-26T15:42:46","date_gmt":"2019-09-26T15:42:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=11911"},"modified":"2019-09-26T19:34:43","modified_gmt":"2019-09-26T19:34:43","slug":"if-someone-feels-a-sexual-desire-about-his-daughter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/if-someone-feels-a-sexual-desire-about-his-daughter\/","title":{"rendered":"If someone feels a sexual desire about his daughter?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 02998<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by: Alimah Nasima Umm Hamza\u200b<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAssalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIf someone feels a sexual desire like only waswasa or doubt about his daughter does his wife becomes haram for him?<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswer:<\/b><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

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\n\tIn the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tIt is narrated on the authority of Abu Huraira that the Messenger of Allah (\ufdfa<\/span>) observed:<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t
\n\t“Verily Allah forgave my people the evil promptings which arise within their hearts as long as they did not speak about them or did not act upon them.” <\/strong>[1]
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\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tHaving these evil thoughts in your head will not annul your marriage.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tBut it is vital that you realise that thoughts are the beginning of actions, because without a thought entering our minds, inevitably the action would not follow.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIt is vital that you remove the thoughts from your head and busy your mind with other thoughts as soon as they enter.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tThe consequences of such thoughts, when they are brought into action are dire indeed, leaving families torn apart. If the sexual thoughts were to lead you to so much as touch your daughter with desire, then this is enough to break your marriage. [2]<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tTake heed, even though the thought itself is not accounted upon, you must not dwell on these thoughts when they enter into your mind, and you must work to remove such ideas from your head permanently before they escalate.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tOnly Allah Ta'ala knows best.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tWritten by Alimah Nasima Umm Hamza<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tChecked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tDarulIfta Birmingham<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t[1] Sahih Muslim, Hadith Number 127a<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t[2] Raddul Muhtaar, Volume 3, Pages 35-36<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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