{"id":13361,"date":"2020-02-27T17:02:22","date_gmt":"2020-02-27T17:02:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=13361"},"modified":"2020-02-27T21:31:04","modified_gmt":"2020-02-27T21:31:04","slug":"divorce-in-his-wifes-absence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/divorce-in-his-wifes-absence\/","title":{"rendered":"Divorce in his Wife’s Absence"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 03309<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by: <\/strong> Maulana Muddasser Dhedhy\u200b<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tMy husband out of anger has many times said behind my back that he will leave me. Never he said this in front of me. <\/a>He married his girlfriend and then got divorced..now he is married again. I said once to leave me and he said ok. Is this divorce. What is the method of ruju<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

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\n\tIn the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong> <\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

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\n\tAnswer<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

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\n\tFirstly, it is not necessary for the wife to be present when the husband divorces her. For example, he could divorce her in writing when she is not present. The divorce will apply the moment the husband wrote it and so will her iddah begin from the time of writing the divorce.[1]<\/sup><\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tHence, when the husband said in his wife’s absence that he will leave his wife, it will not be considered to be divorce as it is a threat of divorce.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tHowever, when the husband responds with ‘okay’ or ‘yes’ in response to the wife asking for him to leave her or to divorce, this will not constitute a divorce even is he intends to divorce her.[2]<\/sup><\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn the particular situation of the questioner, given that the divorce has already come into effect when the husband said in his wife’s absence that he will leave her, if the iddah has already passed from that time onwards there will be no consideration for what the man has said latter in response to the woman asking for him to leave her as she is no longer his wife.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

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\n\tOnly Allah knows best<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tWritten by Maulana Muddasser Dhedhy<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tChecked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

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