{"id":1654,"date":"2011-08-26T16:07:33","date_gmt":"2011-08-26T16:07:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/wp\/?p=1654"},"modified":"2011-08-26T16:07:33","modified_gmt":"2011-08-26T16:07:33","slug":"unlawful-contact-with-a-girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/unlawful-contact-with-a-girl\/","title":{"rendered":"Unlawful contact with a girl"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Unlawful contact with a girl<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>In the name of Allah, the most Beneficent, the most Merciful.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Answer <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Before answering your question first of all we will look at the harms and severities of the sin of adultery and fornication in Islam.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"1\">\n<li>The Prophet of Allah Sallallahu Alahi Wasalam has said that whomsoever commits illegal sexual intercourse or consumes alcohol Allah shall extract from him the Iman (faith) just as how a person removes his clothes from his head. (Kanzul Ummal)<\/li>\n<li>The Prophet of Allah Sallallahu Alahi Wasalam has said, \u201cAbstain from Zina for indeed it has four traits, it eradicates beauty from the face, it restricts sustenance, it angers Allah and entry into hell. (Kanzul Ummal)<\/li>\n<li>The Prophet of Allah Sallallahu Alahi Wasalam has said that Allah\u2019s anger becomes intense upon the fornicators. (Kanzul Ummal)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Islam being a divine religion has given us rules which act as precautions to stop someone falling into this heinous crime. Therefore Islam has strictly prohibited gender interaction except where there is a need.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>With regards to your question, the feelings you have for this girl are not of love but lust as in Islam, there is no true love outside marriage.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Saaiduna Abdullah Ibn Abbas Radiallahu Anhu narrates that the Prophet of Allah Sallallahu Alahi Wasalam said \u201cThere is nothing that creates more love than marriage.\u201d\u00a0 (Sunan Ibn Majah p.133 v.1)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, you should refrain from talking to and contacting this girl and seek Allah\u2019s (SWA) forgiveness from it.\u00a0 If you really want to marry her, you will have to go about it in a proper way.\u00a0 Speak to your parents about the girl and if they are happy about her then arrange a meeting with the girl and her family.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, remember to read Salatul Istikhara and ask Allah (SWA) to guide you.\u00a0 If you were destined to marry this girl, it will happen.\u00a0 Otherwise Allah (SWA) may have chosen someone more suitable for you.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Only Allah Knows Best.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/Unlawful%20contact%20with%20a%20girl.htm\"><br \/>\n<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Unlawful contact with a girl &nbsp; &nbsp; In the name of Allah, the most Beneficent, the most Merciful.\u00a0 &nbsp; Answer &nbsp; Before answering your&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1654"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1654"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1654\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1654"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1654"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1654"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}