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Fatwa ID: 05281<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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I want to marry a girl, my father is ready for that, she is yateem and belongs to a poor family. Her family is ready to do nikah of her with me but my mom is not giving me permission, what should I do?<\/span><\/p>\n

How to convince my mom, please help me, she is a good girl, very Islamic and goes to Madrassa for hifz.<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Marriage in Islam is a lifelong commitment, every individual should look for a spouse who is pious and with which whom one is compatible. Therefore, when one considers a prospective spouse, he should adopt the correct means to find out about the person.<\/span><\/p>\n

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He should make istikhara<\/em> in the process to seek goodness from Allah Ta\u2019ala in the decision one is making.<\/span><\/p>\n

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If one feels content with going ahead with a prospective spouse, with utmost respect and politeness he should explain to his mother his decision or request his father to speak to his mother.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Only Allah Ta\u2019ala knows best<\/span><\/p>\n

Written by\u00a0 Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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