{"id":21964,"date":"2021-06-12T00:14:21","date_gmt":"2021-06-12T00:14:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=21964"},"modified":"2021-06-12T00:14:21","modified_gmt":"2021-06-12T00:14:21","slug":"if-a-male-and-female-do-a-nikah-proposal-that-is-valid-but-not-with-a-serious-intention","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/if-a-male-and-female-do-a-nikah-proposal-that-is-valid-but-not-with-a-serious-intention\/","title":{"rendered":"If a Male and Female Do a Nikah Proposal That Is Valid but Not With a Serious Intention"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 05322<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by: <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Mufti Maruf Ahmed<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Question<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Salaam, I wanted to ask if a male and female do a nikah proposal that is <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">valid but not with a serious intention i.e. how the proposal was <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">said\/worded, answered, and where they are more than 2 male Muslim <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">witnesses present, which would normally make the nikah valid. But it is <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">understood as a joke (not with serious intention) by everyone even <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">the male who proposed and the female replied. Is that nikah valid? Or do <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">the male and female be fully aware that the nikah is taking place <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">officially?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;\"><strong><u>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h1><\/h1>\n<h1><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><u>Answer<\/u><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;\">Nikah is a great sunnah of the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) and a very sacred agreement. It should most certainly not be taken as a joke. The contract of nikah is complete by the simple utterance of words denoting proposal and acceptance, in the presence of two witnesses.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">As such, uttering words of nikah even as a joke will result in an actual marriage in the eyes of the Shari\u2019ah. Therefore, having a serious intention is not a prerequisite. This is based on the hadith of the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam): <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u201cThere are three things which if done in earnest they are valid and if done in jest they are also valid: marriage (nikah), divorce (talaq) and taking back one&#8217;s wife after divorce (raj\u2019ah).\u201d<strong>[1]<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;\">And Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;\">Written by Mufti Maruf Ahmed<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;\">Darul\u00a0Ifta\u00a0Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;\"><strong>[1]<\/strong> Narrated on the authority of Abu Hurairah (ra) by Abu Dawud (Hadith 2196) and Tirmidhi (Hadith 1221)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;\"><strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 05322 &nbsp; Answered by: Mufti Maruf Ahmed &nbsp; Question &nbsp; Salaam, I wanted to ask if a male and female do a nikah&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21964"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21964"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21964\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21989,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21964\/revisions\/21989"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21964"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21964"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21964"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}