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Fatwa ID: 05475<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Shaykh Shafiur Rahman<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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If the husband says to the wife I am your son in-joke will it be regarded as talaq or zihar according to Sunni fiqh Hanafi?.<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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This will not be counted as zihar because in zihar there needs to be a comparison (tasbih) with a woman who is a mahram for it to be counted as zihar.[1]<\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

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There are two main types of statements when it comes to pronouncing divorce, Sarih and Kinaya.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Sarih (explicit\/clear) statements of divorce are those expressions said by the husband to the wife that is plain\/direct and clear using the word divorce such as \u2018I have divorced you\u2019 and \u2018you are divorced\u2019 etc.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ibn Abideen states that \u201cA clear (sarih) statement of divorce is that which is\u00a0customarily\u00a0used for divorce in a way that it is not used for anything but divorce\u2026\u201d[2]<\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

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Kinaya (allusive) means using words\/expressions that are not exclusively used for issuing divorce, but they allude and hint to it. They can mean divorce as well as something other than divorce.[3]<\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

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However a kinaya word or expression is only counted as a divorce if the husband had clearly intended divorce by it, otherwise, it has no effect.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Therefore is he had no intention of divorce then it will not be counted as such.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Only Allah knows best<\/span><\/p>\n

Written by Shaykh Shafiur Rahman<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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