{"id":24047,"date":"2022-02-15T21:16:09","date_gmt":"2022-02-15T21:16:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=24047"},"modified":"2022-02-15T21:16:09","modified_gmt":"2022-02-15T21:16:09","slug":"how-does-one-find-a-shaykh-spiritual-mentor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/how-does-one-find-a-shaykh-spiritual-mentor\/","title":{"rendered":"How Does One Find a Shaykh\/Spiritual Mentor?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 05872<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by: Shaykh Ahmed bin Mohamed Umarji<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I need some advice. I am currently reading about tasawwuf, I would like to know how does one find a Shaykh\/spiritual mentor? A few brothers have given me the names of Shuyukh to contact, however, they have not replied to me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">A brother I work with is part of the Shadhli tariqa and he has given me some books to read, which I have. I do not feel comfortable with concepts such as &#8216;hadra&#8217; and celebrating the mawlid. I have also been reading about tasawwuf from the Ulama of Deoband, I feel more comfortable with this. However, I do not know how to find a suitable Shaykh, please advise?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><u><strong>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><u><strong>Answer:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">May Allah Ta\u2019ala bless you in your path to spiritual reform (Tasawwuf) and Tazkiyyah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Tazkiyyah is one of the fundamental missions of The Prophet P.B.U.H, as Allah Ta\u2019ala says:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0647\u064f\u0648\u064e \u0671\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u0649 \u0628\u064e\u0639\u064e\u062b\u064e \u0641\u0650\u0649 \u0671\u0644\u0652\u0623\u064f\u0645\u0651\u0650\u064a\u0651\u0650\u0640\u06e7\u0646\u064e \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064b\u06ed\u0627 \u0645\u0651\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u062a\u0652\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0627\u06df \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650\u0645\u0652 \u0621\u064e\u0627\u064a\u064e\u0640\u0670\u062a\u0650\u0647\u0650\u06e6 \u0648\u064e\u064a\u064f\u0632\u064e\u0643\u0651\u0650\u064a\u0647\u0650\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e\u064a\u064f\u0639\u064e\u0644\u0651\u0650\u0645\u064f\u0647\u064f\u0645\u064f \u0671\u0644\u0652\u0643\u0650\u062a\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0628\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0671\u0644\u0652\u062d\u0650\u0643\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646 \u0643\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627\u06df \u0645\u0650\u0646 \u0642\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0644\u064f \u0644\u064e\u0641\u0650\u0649 \u0636\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0644\u064d\u06e2 \u0645\u0651\u064f\u0628\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064d\u06e2<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">He is the One Who raised for the illiterate \u02f9people\u02fa a messenger from among themselves\u2014reciting to them His revelations, purifying them, and teaching them the Book and wisdom, for indeed they had previously been clearly astray\u2014<sup>1<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Prophet Ibrahim (peace be upon him) made dua for a messenger that would serve multiple roles, including purifying the believers:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0631\u064e\u0628\u0651\u064e\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0671\u0628\u0652\u0639\u064e\u062b\u0652 \u0641\u0650\u064a\u0647\u0650\u0645\u0652 \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064b\u06ed\u0627 \u0645\u0651\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u062a\u0652\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0627\u06df \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650\u0645\u0652 \u0621\u064e\u0627\u064a\u064e\u0640\u0670\u062a\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0648\u064e\u064a\u064f\u0639\u064e\u0644\u0651\u0650\u0645\u064f\u0647\u064f\u0645\u064f \u0671\u0644\u0652\u0643\u0650\u062a\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0628\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0671\u0644\u0652\u062d\u0650\u0643\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0648\u064e\u064a\u064f\u0632\u064e\u0643\u0651\u0650\u064a\u0647\u0650\u0645\u0652 \u06da \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0643\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0646\u062a\u064e \u0671\u0644\u0652\u0639\u064e\u0632\u0650\u064a\u0632\u064f \u0671\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0643\u0650\u064a\u0645\u064f<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Our Lord, and raise up among them a messenger, from among themselves, who will recite to them Your revelations, and teach them the Book and wisdom, and spiritually purify them. You are the Almighty, the Wise.<sup>2<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Allah Ta\u2019ala accepted this prayer, sending The Prophet Muhammad P.B.U.H with the following functions:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0643\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0653 \u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0633\u064e\u0644\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0641\u0650\u064a\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064b\u06ed\u0627 \u0645\u0651\u0650\u0646\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u062a\u0652\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0627\u06df \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0621\u064e\u0627\u064a\u064e\u0640\u0670\u062a\u0650\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u064a\u064f\u0632\u064e\u0643\u0651\u0650\u064a\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e\u064a\u064f\u0639\u064e\u0644\u0651\u0650\u0645\u064f\u0643\u064f\u0645\u064f \u0671\u0644\u0652\u0643\u0650\u062a\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0628\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0671\u0644\u0652\u062d\u0650\u0643\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0648\u064e\u064a\u064f\u0639\u064e\u0644\u0651\u0650\u0645\u064f\u0643\u064f\u0645 \u0645\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0644\u064e\u0645\u0652 \u062a\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627\u06df \u062a\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0645\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Just as We sent to you a messenger from among you, who recites Our revelations to you, and spiritually purifies you, and teaches you the Book and wisdom, and teaches you what you did not know.<sup>3<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">The importance of finding a Shaykh and being around those who will spiritually uplift others is highlighted in the verse:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u064a\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0653\u0623\u064e\u064a\u0651\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0671\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0621\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064e\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627\u06df \u0671\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0642\u064f\u0648\u0627\u06df \u0671\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627\u06df \u0645\u064e\u0639\u064e \u0671\u0644\u0635\u0651\u064e\u0640\u0670\u062f\u0650\u0642\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">O, believers! Be mindful of Allah and be truthful.<sup>4<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">With regards to finding a Shaykh, we would advise seeking a Shaykh that you can conveniently connect with and relate to. Often times there are giants in our midst\u2019s who may not be popular. If you need help connecting with a Shaykh please send us an email and we will try connecting you with a Shaykh<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah knows best<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Shaykh Ahmed bin Mohamed Umarji<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">1 Surah al-Jumu\u2019ah, Verse 2<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">2 Surah al-Baqarah, Verse 129<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">3 Surah al-Baqarah, Verse 151<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">4 Surah at-Tawbah. 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