{"id":24785,"date":"2022-03-26T10:22:40","date_gmt":"2022-03-26T10:22:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=24785"},"modified":"2022-03-26T10:22:40","modified_gmt":"2022-03-26T10:22:40","slug":"what-is-the-concept-of-having-a-dars-before-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/what-is-the-concept-of-having-a-dars-before-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"What Is the Concept of Having a \u201cDars\u201d Before Marriage?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 05968<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by: Alimah Habiba Akhtar<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">What is the concept of having a &#8220;dars&#8221; before marriage? Amongst our desis, this has become sort of a custom according to my understanding.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">The conditions for nikah are the following:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">There needs to be an offer and an acceptance<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">The speech has to be in the past tense or one in the past tense and the other in the future tense<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Two witnesses (two sane, mature Muslim men or a man and two women) must be present. (1)<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Thus, the above is the criteria to be married and be tied in a contract according to the Hanafi madhab.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">A Nikah ceremony will solemnise a marriage and two people will become halal for one another.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">However, in order to educate everyone along with the bride and groom, knowledge can be imparted to teach the importance of kind treatment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">This will be amongst the reward of imparting knowledge to others. (2) So, there would be no harm with the Dars as long as it isn&#8217;t made a condition.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah knows best<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Alimah Habiba Akhtar<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">1)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0648\u0631\u0643\u0646\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0625\u064a\u062c\u0627\u0628 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0642\u0628\u0648\u0644. \u0648\u064a\u0646\u0639\u0642\u062f \u0628\u0644\u0641\u0638\u064a\u0646 \u0645\u0627\u0636\u064a\u064a\u0646\u060c \u0623\u0648 \u0628\u0644\u0641\u0638\u064a\u0646 \u0623\u062d\u062f\u0647\u0645\u0627 \u0645\u0627\u0636 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0622\u062e\u0631 \u0645\u0633\u062a\u0642\u0628\u0644. \u0643\u0642\u0648\u0644\u0647: \u0632\u0648\u062c\u0646\u064a\u060c \u0641\u064a\u0642\u0648\u0644: \u0632\u0648\u062c\u062a\u0643. \u0648\u064a\u0646\u0639\u0642\u062f \u0628\u0644\u0641\u0638 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0643\u0627\u062d \u0648\u0627\u0644\u062a\u0632\u0648\u064a\u062c \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0647\u0628\u0629 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0635\u062f\u0642\u0629 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u062a\u0645\u0644\u064a\u0643 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0628\u064a\u0639 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0634\u0631\u0627\u0621 (\u0641). \u0648\u0644\u0627 \u064a\u0646\u0639\u0642\u062f \u0646\u0643\u0627\u062d \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0633\u0644\u0645\u064a\u0646 \u0625\u0644\u0627 \u0628\u062d\u0636\u0648\u0631 \u0631\u062c\u0644\u064a\u0646\u060c \u0623\u0648 \u0631\u062c\u0644 \u0648\u0627\u0645\u0631\u0623\u062a\u064a\u0646<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; 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