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Fatwa ID: 07189<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Maulana Ubaidur Rahman<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n

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I and my husband had a heated argument one night before and we cooled down and settled the issue but the next day my husband jokingly said to me \u201cTalaq, talaq\u201d twice but we weren\u2019t aware that merely utterance also makes the divorce in effect. We were living together without any ruju being made or said as we didn\u2019t know we were divorced.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Also we didn\u2019t make any husband and wife relationship in this period as I am 8 months pregnant. And again after 20 days after an argument regarding him talking to other women I demanded him to leave me to which he agreed after a longtime and said me you are divorced three times. Please let me know what are we supposed to do. Is the divorce after 20 days valid? Are we divorced irrevocably?<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n

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Allah mentions in the Quraan,<\/span><\/p>\n

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Translation: Let the man of wealth provide according to his means. As for the one with limited resources, let him provide according to whatever Allah has given him. Allah does not require of any soul beyond what He has given it. After hardship, Allah will bring about ease.<\/span><\/p>\n

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The Prophet (PBUH) says in a hadeeth,<\/span><\/p>\n

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Translation: Ibn \u2018Umar said that he divorced his wife while she was menstruating. \u2018Umar mentioned the matter to the Prophet(\ufdfa<\/span>). He (the Prophet) said \u201cOrder him, he must take her back and divorce her when she is purified (from menstrual discharge) or she is pregnant.<\/span><\/p>\n

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The divorce is made effective to the revocable effect. <\/span><\/p>\n

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A revocable divorce is when the divorce is made effective by issuing clear wording, \u2018You are divorced\u2019 or any indirect words which carry a similar effect once the meaning is known, for example you are like a shoe to me\u2019. It is revocable i.e. able to take the woman back and make her wife legally within the time limit equivalent to three menstrual cycles. If however, a divorce is issued three times at once or three separate occasions then the irrevocable divorce will occur and the formal procedures of remarrying the wife will have to occur. 3<\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

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You are divorced irrevocably as the occurrence of three divorces has occurred. You will need to reestablish your marriage as a new nikaah in order for it to occur and be in place again. <\/span><\/p>\n

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1<\/a> Surah Talaaq, ayat 7<\/span><\/p>\n

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2<\/a> Sunan Abi Dawood, 2181<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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\u0631\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0627\u0645\u062d\u062a\u0627\u0631 page 230, volume 3, Maktabatu Shaamila.<\/span><\/p>\n

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4<\/a> Raddul Muhtaaar, page 230, volume 3, Maktabatu Shaamila<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n

Answered by Maulana Ubaidur Rahman.<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah.<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham.<\/span><\/p>\n

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