{"id":36136,"date":"2025-05-01T15:58:34","date_gmt":"2025-05-01T15:58:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=36136"},"modified":"2025-07-10T10:48:42","modified_gmt":"2025-07-10T10:48:42","slug":"fulfilling-a-vow-of-charity-amidst-family-hardship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/fulfilling-a-vow-of-charity-amidst-family-hardship\/","title":{"rendered":"Fulfilling a Vow of Charity Amidst Family Hardship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 08071<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Answered by: Alimah Saleha Bukhari Islam<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I have promised Allah that I will give 20 percent of it in His way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I got a business, and I have promised Allah that I will give 20 percent of it in donation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">As a sadqah, I have made Allah as my partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Also, I and my family are going through a very harsh phase of life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Even my mother cooks on wood instead of LPG because we haven&#8217;t much money.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">What is Allah&#8217;s order?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If I spend that money to give relief to my mother, will Allah accept it?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Answer:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I understand from your question that you have a business and have promised to donate 20 percent of it as voluntary charity (sadaqah) for the sake of Allah, thereby declaring Allah as a partner in your business. Since your mother is your responsibility and not eligible to receive sadaqah from you, therefore you cannot directly spend the promised money on your mother as fulfilling a nadhr (vow) typically involves giving to those eligible for sadaqah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Islam teaches us to value and honour our oaths. Therefore, if a person finds himself\/herself in a position needing to break a promise made to Allah (verbally made), then he\/she is required to atone for it. The expiation (kaffarah) for a broken oath is:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Free a slave (no longer applicable).<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Feed ten poor (adult) people two average meals a day for ten days (e.g., lunch &amp; dinner).<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Clothe ten poor (adult) people with average quality clothing that will cover most of their body.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If none of the above are possible, for example, due to financial constraints, then one must fast for three consecutive days (without interruption). This is the substitute for kaffarah. [1]<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Once you fulfill the expiation, then you are permitted to spend the 20 percent that you swore the oath on, according to your discretion. At that point, using a portion of your wealth to alleviate the hardship of your mother would be an act of righteousness and filial piety, which is highly encouraged in Islam.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Note: It is compulsory for the validity of an oath that it was uttered verbally. According to Shariah, an oath does not come into effect merely by making an intention in the heart. In such a case, if one goes against it, then according to Shariah, there is no kaffarah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah\u00a0 knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Alimah Saleha Bukhari Islam<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">[1] \u0637\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064f \u0627\u0644\u062a\u064e\u0651\u0645\u0652\u0644\u0650\u064a\u0643\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064f\u0639\u0652\u0637\u0650\u064a\u064e \u0639\u064e\u0634\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0627\u0643\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0643\u064f\u0644\u064e\u0651 \u0645\u0650\u0633\u0652\u0643\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064d \u0646\u0650\u0635\u0652\u0641\u064e \u0635\u064e\u0627\u0639\u064d \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u062d\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0637\u064e\u0629\u064d \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652 \u062f\u064e\u0642\u0650\u064a\u0642\u064d \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652 \u0633\u064e\u0648\u0650\u064a\u0642\u064d \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652 \u0635\u064e\u0627\u0639\u064b\u0627 \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0634\u064e\u0639\u0650\u064a\u0631\u064d \u0643\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0635\u064e\u062f\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0629\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0641\u0650\u0637\u0652\u0631\u0650 \u0641\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0637\u064e\u0649 \u0639\u064e\u0634\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0627\u0643\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0643\u064f\u0644\u064e\u0651 \u0645\u0650\u0633\u0652\u0643\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064d \u0645\u064f\u062f\u064b\u0651\u0627 \u0645\u064f\u062f\u064b\u0651\u0627 \u0625\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0627\u062f\u064e \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650\u0645\u0652 \u0645\u064f\u062f\u064b\u0651\u0627 \u0645\u064f\u062f\u064b\u0651\u0627 \u062c\u064e\u0627\u0632\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0644\u064e\u0645\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0639\u0650\u062f\u0652 \u0627\u0633\u0652\u062a\u064e\u0642\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0637\u064e\u0651\u0639\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0643\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u064e\u0651\u062c\u064f\u0644\u064f \u0625\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0635\u064e\u0649 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064f\u0637\u0652\u0639\u064e\u0645\u064e \u0639\u064e\u0634\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0629\u064f \u0645\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0627\u0643\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0643\u064e\u0641\u064e\u0651\u0627\u0631\u064e\u0629\u064b \u0644\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0645\u0650\u064a\u0646\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0641\u064e\u063a\u064e\u062f\u064e\u0651\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0635\u0650\u064a\u064f\u0651 \u0639\u064e\u0634\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0627\u0643\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0641\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627\u062a\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0627\u0643\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064f \u0642\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064f\u0639\u064e\u0634\u0650\u0651\u064a\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0644\u0652\u0632\u064e\u0645\u064f\u0647\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0650\u0627\u0633\u0652\u062a\u0650\u0642\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064f \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u064a\u064e\u0636\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0646\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0635\u0650\u064a\u064f\u0651<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; 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