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Fatwa ID: 07947<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by Alimah Maryam Badshah<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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If someone used to be in a sinful relationship with a disbelieving woman and compliments her in a praising manner such as “you are an angel” or “you are the most beautiful person in the world” or “you’re the best person in the world”, etc., how do they repent from it, and are they held responsible for the thoughts the disbelieving woman will have of herself such as her thinking “I am an angel” & so on? If so how should one go about it?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Allah (swt) says: \u201cDo not go near Zina, indeed it is an immorality and an evil way.\u201d Surah Al-Isra\u2019 (17:32)<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Before contemplating whether or not you are responsible for the thoughts of others, you should first sincerely repent for having committed such a deplorable major sin as fornication (Zina). Major sins are only forgiven through sincere repentance or an accepted \u1e24ajj. A sincere repentance is to ask Allah (swt) for forgiveness, thereafter leaving the sin entirely and be sincere in both respects. Therefore, regardless of what had been said in the past, you should close all avenues of contact and ensure that you do not associate with this person again out of fear of repeating the sin. Instead seek forgiveness from Allah and repent from the entire situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Only Allah (\u0639\u0632 \u0648 \u062c\u0644) knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n

Written by Alimah Maryam Badshah<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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References:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Qur\u2019an (17:32)<\/span><\/p>\n

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Raddul Muht\u0101r (Vol.2, pg.624, D\u0101r Al-Fiqr)<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ma\u2019\u0101riful-Qur\u2019\u0101n (4:31) (Vol.2, pg.405-408, Maktaba-e-Darul-\u2019Uloom, Karachi)<\/span><\/p>\n

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