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Fatwa ID: 08189<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Maulana Yusuf Badshah<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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I need a fatwa from a mufti to confirm if divorcing my wife during an argument was valid or not.<\/span><\/p>\n

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We had a big argument a couple of months ago. She kept saying, “Divorce me,” and I refused. She chased me to the other room, and we had a big argument. She started shouting, saying, “Divorce me,” and she got physical with me. I was outraged, and when I said the word divorce to her, I was shocked, and I didn\u2019t believe the word came out from my mouth. I kept saying I divorced her and was in complete shock and confused, as I was out of control when I said it. I want to know if this talaq was valid or not.<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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While the Talaq of one who is angry such that they are not conscious at the time of giving Talaq may be excused, what you have stated does not appear to be insanity driven by outrage [1]. As someone who was clearly conscious at the time of giving Talaq and who remembers their thoughts and actions clearly, this appears to be nothing more than you succumbing to the pressure and the heat of the moment, not someone who is genuinely out of control. Rather, Talaq is almost always given in a state of anger [2].<\/span><\/p>\n

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Thus, there is little evidence to suggest that the Talaqs you have given were invalid. Given that you gave Talaq more than twice, this means that a Talaq Mughalladah has occurred. As a result, not only are you separated from your wife, but you cannot remarry her unless she marries someone else, consummates the marriage with them, divorces them, and then agrees to remarry you [3].<\/span><\/p>\n

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Regardless, it is clear that your wife wishes to separate from you. As such, the most sensible and precautious thing for you to do is to acknowledge that Talaq has been given and separate from her.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n

Written by Maulana Yusuf Badshah<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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[1] Raddul Muhtar, vol. 3, pg. 230, Darul Fikr:<\/span><\/p>\n

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[2] Raddul Muhtar, vol. 3, pg. 250, Darul Fikr:<\/span><\/p>\n

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[3] Raddul Muhtar, vol. 3, pg. 280, Darul Fikr:<\/span><\/p>\n

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Surah Al-Baqarah 230:<\/span><\/p>\n

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