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Fatwa ID: 08146<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Maulana Yusuf Badshah<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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I’m a 22 years old boy and I have a problem that sometimes when I am near girls I got excited and mazi is released without any bad thinking. My question is few months ago I read about Hurmat Musahara and from that day I am in dilemma that if I am in touch with my mother and I released mazi (not Mani\/semen) or get some erection ( ofcourse without any bad intention) but due to unwanted reason will Hurmat Musahara establish??<\/span>
\nPlease explain in detail I’m too much thinking about this?<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Hurmah Musaharah does not establish when one is near but not touching a member of the opposite gender, nor when one accidentally touches their own parents. Hurmah Musaharah occurs when one intentionally touches a member of the opposite gender seeking pleasure. In which case one would not be permitted to marry a direct family member of that individual [1].<\/span><\/p>\n

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One lacking self-control should take measures to avoid being near members of the opposite gender except where necessary and avoid any form of free mixing [2].<\/span><\/p>\n

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Only Allah s.w.t knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n

Written by: Maulana Yusuf Badshah<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by: Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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[1] Raddul Muhtar, vol. 3, pg. 30\u201331, Darul Fikr:<\/span>
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[2] Sahih Al-Bukhari 5233:<\/span>
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