{"id":7700,"date":"2014-06-01T17:07:46","date_gmt":"2014-06-01T17:07:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=7700"},"modified":"2014-06-01T17:07:46","modified_gmt":"2014-06-01T17:07:46","slug":"the-prophet-of-allah-sallallahu-alahi-wasalam-marriage-with-saaidah-aaisha-radiallahu-anha","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/the-prophet-of-allah-sallallahu-alahi-wasalam-marriage-with-saaidah-aaisha-radiallahu-anha\/","title":{"rendered":"The Prophet of Allah Sallallahu Alahi Wasalam marriage with Saaidah Aaisha Radiallahu Anha"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 01640<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by <\/strong>Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion:<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tThe Prophet of Allah \"\u1e63allall\u0101hu marriage with Saaidah Aaisha \"ra\u1e0dyAll\u0101hu<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswer:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t\"Bismillah\"<\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tBefore I reply to your question, I will firstly mention some distinctive features of Saaidah Aaisha \"ra\u1e0dyAll\u0101hu.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

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  1. \n\t\tBefore the marriage to the Prophet of Allah \"\u1e63allall\u0101hu, Saaiduna Jibraeel Alayhis Salam had brought to him her image wrapped in a silk cloth and said to him, ‘She is your wife’.  Saaidah Aaisha Radiallahu Anha narrates that the Prophet of Allah \"\u1e63allall\u0101hu said (to me):  "You have been shown to me twice in (my) dreams. A man was carrying you in a silken cloth and said to me, 'This is your wife.' I uncovered it and behold, it was you. I said to myself, 'If this dream is from Allah, He will cause it to come true.' (Sahih Bukhari p.760 v.2)  <\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  2. \n\t\tThe Prophet of Allah \"\u1e63allall\u0101hu did not marry any maiden girl other than her.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  3. \n\t\tThe Prophet of Allah \"\u1e63allall\u0101hu died in her lap.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  4. \n\t\tThe Prophet of Allah \"\u1e63allall\u0101hu was buried in her house.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  5. \n\t\tThe Prophet of Allah \"\u1e63allall\u0101hu received revelations even at that time when he used to be with Saaidah Aaisha \"ra\u1e0dyAll\u0101hu under the same quilt.  None of the other wives were granted this distinction.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n
  6. \n\t\tHer exoneration was sent down from the Heaven. (Maariful Quran p.379 – p.380 v.6)<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    \n\tRegarding the marriage of Saaidah Aaisha \"ra\u1e0dyAll\u0101hu to the Prophet of Allah \"\u1e63allall\u0101hu at an early age is mentioned in the following hadith.  Saaidah Aaisha \"ra\u1e0dyAll\u0101hu said: “The Prophet of Allah \"\u1e63allall\u0101hu married me when I was six years old. Then we came to Madinah Munawarah and stayed in Bani Al Haarith Ibn Khazraj. I fell ill and my hair started to fall out (due to the illness; then it grew back thick again). My mother Umm Roomaan came to me whilst I was on a swing and my friends were with me. She shouted for me and I came to her, not knowing what she wanted. She took me by the hand and led me to the door of the house. I was out of breath and we waited until I had calmed down, then she took some water and wiped my face and head, then took me inside. There were some women of the Ansar in the house, and they gave me blessings, best wishes, etc…" My mother handed me over to them and they tidied me up, then suddenly the Prophet of Allah Sallallahu Alahi Wasalam was there. It was mid-morning, and they handed me over to him. At that time I was nine years old." (Sahih Bukhari)<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

    \n\tFrom the aforementioned ahadith, the jurists have said that it is permissible to contract marriage with a young girl. (See Raddul Muhtar p.170 v.4) It is also permissible to hand her over to her husband even though she has not matured yet. Consummating the marriage will only happen when she is physically able for it. This should answer your question that just because the Prophet of Allah \"\u1e63allall\u0101hu married Saaidah Aaisha \"ra\u1e0dyAll\u0101hu at a young age it does not mean that the marriage was consummated at the age of nine.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

    \n\tOther answers given by scholars are that women depending on genetics, race and environment can mature from the age of eight onwards. Any objection to such a young marriage can only be made if can be shown that some harm was caused because of it. In fact all evidence points to the opposite as Saaidah Aaisha \"ra\u1e0dyAll\u0101hu was raised, nurtured and imbibed with knowledge of Islam. The Prophet of Allah \"\u1e63allall\u0101hu loved Saaidah Aaisha \"ra\u1e0dyAll\u0101hu the most. There are narrations where Saaidah Aishah fondly recalls memories of racing with the Prophet of Allah \"\u1e63allall\u0101hu and even winning the race when she was young and fit. They would sit and eat together and Aishah would take a sip and then the Prophet would do so from the same spot her lips touched. She would have some meat or chicken, and then he would eat from the same spot she ate from.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

    \n\tOnly Allah Knows Best<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

    \n\tMohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

    \n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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