{"id":8896,"date":"2017-02-08T18:07:16","date_gmt":"2017-02-08T18:07:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=8896"},"modified":"2017-02-08T18:07:45","modified_gmt":"2017-02-08T18:07:45","slug":"touching-daughter-with-lust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/touching-daughter-with-lust\/","title":{"rendered":"Touching daughter with lust"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 02098<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Answered by <\/strong>Molana Eunus Ali<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">As&nbsp;Salaamu&nbsp;Alaykum&nbsp;wa&nbsp;Rahmatullahi&nbsp;Wa&nbsp;Barakaatuh<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Hazrat,&nbsp;please&nbsp;bear&nbsp;in&nbsp;mind,&nbsp;I&nbsp;am&nbsp;not&nbsp;after&nbsp;any&nbsp;references&nbsp;if&nbsp;time&nbsp;is&nbsp;of<br \/>\n\tthe&nbsp;essence,&nbsp;and&nbsp;short&nbsp;answer&nbsp;will&nbsp;suffice.&nbsp;Please&nbsp;also&nbsp;note&nbsp;this<br \/>\n\tquestion&nbsp;is&nbsp;of&nbsp;sensitive&nbsp;nature,&nbsp;but&nbsp;Islam&nbsp;encourages&nbsp;to&nbsp;ask&nbsp;if&nbsp;we&nbsp;do<br \/>\n\tnot&nbsp;know.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">My&nbsp;question&nbsp;is:<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">(1) If&nbsp;a&nbsp;father&nbsp;touches&nbsp;his&nbsp;daughter,&nbsp;or&nbsp;look&nbsp;sat&nbsp;her&nbsp;with&nbsp;lusfal&nbsp;gazes&nbsp;is<br \/>\n\this&nbsp;nikah&nbsp;with&nbsp;his&nbsp;wife&nbsp;terminated&nbsp;unconditionally?<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">(2) If&nbsp;true&nbsp;how&nbsp;literal&nbsp;do&nbsp;we&nbsp;mean?&nbsp;Is&nbsp;it&nbsp;safe&nbsp;to&nbsp;say&nbsp;that&nbsp;if&nbsp;he&nbsp;inhibits<br \/>\n\tpaedophilia-like&nbsp;desires\/impulses&nbsp;towards&nbsp;his&nbsp;daughter&nbsp;at&nbsp;the&nbsp;point&nbsp;when<br \/>\n\tshe&#39;s&nbsp;mature&nbsp;_then_&nbsp;the&nbsp;nikah&nbsp;is&nbsp;terminated?<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">(3) In&nbsp;addition,&nbsp;what&nbsp;if&nbsp;thoughts&nbsp;of&nbsp;another&nbsp;women&nbsp;comes&nbsp;to&nbsp;his&nbsp;mind&nbsp;as&nbsp;a<br \/>\n\tresult&nbsp;of&nbsp;looking&nbsp;at&nbsp;his&nbsp;daughter&nbsp;is&nbsp;the&nbsp;nikah&nbsp;terminated?<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Please&nbsp;clarify&nbsp;clearly,&nbsp;and&nbsp;factually.&nbsp;This&nbsp;question&nbsp;is&nbsp;of&nbsp;great&nbsp;concern<br \/>\n\tto&nbsp;me,&nbsp;and&nbsp;my&nbsp;wife.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Jazak&#39;Allah.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Answer:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<a href=\"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Bismillah.jpg\" rel=\"\" target=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Bismillah\" height=\"50\" src=\"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Bismillah.jpg\" title=\"\" width=\"267\" \/><\/a>\n<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">When the father touches any part of the body or looks at the inner private part of his daughter with lust and desire the ruling of <em>hurmatulmusaharah<\/em>will take effect. This means that his wife will become unconditionally prohibited for him and the marriage will no longer remain valid.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">The marriage of the father will only be terminated if the father acts on these impulses either by engaging in sexual activity, touching or looking at the private part with desire as mentioned above of the daughter (may Allah protect us from this).<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">By looking at any other part of the body other than the private parts with desire, the above mentioned ruling will not take effect.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li value=\"3\">\n<p>\n\t\t\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"color:#000000;\">The mere fantasising of another woman when looking at the daughter will not terminate the <a name=\"_GoBack\"><\/a>father&rsquo;s marriage although this is a sinful act.<\/span><a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\" title=\"\"><span style=\"color:#000000;\">[1]<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/span>\n\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Only Allah knows best<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Written by Molana Eunus Ali<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<hr align=\"left\" size=\"1\" width=\"33%\" \/>\n<div id=\"ftn1\">\n<p>\n\t\t\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\" title=\"\"><span style=\"color:#000000;\">[1]<\/span><\/a><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Al-Fatawa Al-Hindiyyah, Volume 1, Page 303, DarulKutubulIlmiyyah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\t<span style=\"color:#000000;\"><span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Badai As-Sanai, Volume 3, Page 423, DarulKutubulIlmiyyah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\t&nbsp;\n\t\t<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 02098 Answered by Molana Eunus Ali Question: As&nbsp;Salaamu&nbsp;Alaykum&nbsp;wa&nbsp;Rahmatullahi&nbsp;Wa&nbsp;Barakaatuh Hazrat,&nbsp;please&nbsp;bear&nbsp;in&nbsp;mind,&nbsp;I&nbsp;am&nbsp;not&nbsp;after&nbsp;any&nbsp;references&nbsp;if&nbsp;time&nbsp;is&nbsp;of the&nbsp;essence,&nbsp;and&nbsp;short&nbsp;answer&nbsp;will&nbsp;suffice.&nbsp;Please&nbsp;also&nbsp;note&nbsp;this question&nbsp;is&nbsp;of&nbsp;sensitive&nbsp;nature,&nbsp;but&nbsp;Islam&nbsp;encourages&nbsp;to&nbsp;ask&nbsp;if&nbsp;we&nbsp;do not&nbsp;know. My&nbsp;question&nbsp;is: (1) If&nbsp;a&nbsp;father&nbsp;touches&nbsp;his&nbsp;daughter,&nbsp;or&nbsp;look&nbsp;sat&nbsp;her&nbsp;with&nbsp;lusfal&nbsp;gazes&nbsp;is his&nbsp;nikah&nbsp;with&nbsp;his&nbsp;wife&nbsp;terminated&nbsp;unconditionally? (2) If&nbsp;true&nbsp;how&nbsp;literal&nbsp;do&nbsp;we&nbsp;mean?&nbsp;Is&nbsp;it&nbsp;safe&nbsp;to&nbsp;say&nbsp;that&nbsp;if&nbsp;he&nbsp;inhibits paedophilia-like&nbsp;desires\/impulses&nbsp;towards&nbsp;his&nbsp;daughter&nbsp;at&nbsp;the&nbsp;point&nbsp;when she&#39;s&nbsp;mature&nbsp;_then_&nbsp;the&nbsp;nikah&nbsp;is&nbsp;terminated? (3) In&nbsp;addition,&nbsp;what&nbsp;if&nbsp;thoughts&nbsp;of&nbsp;another&nbsp;women&nbsp;comes&nbsp;to&nbsp;his&nbsp;mind&nbsp;as&nbsp;a result&nbsp;of&nbsp;looking&nbsp;at&nbsp;his&nbsp;daughter&nbsp;is&nbsp;the&nbsp;nikah&nbsp;terminated?&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8896"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8896"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8896\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8898,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8896\/revisions\/8898"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8896"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8896"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8896"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}