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\n\tFatwa ID: 02226<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by <\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>Ustadha Umm Abdullah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tMy mum deceived me while I was  getting engaged. She broke my engagement as well with help of my brother. She told lies, she was the person I have trusted most in my life. I always have dreams when I am walking with my family members mums eyes transformed into wild animals. I can neither love her not hate her, she is extremely materialistic chatting with her. Do I have a right to stop seeing her though personally she loves for me to stay with my older brother.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswer:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t\"Bismillah\"<\/a>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIslam<\/em> is a religion that encourages love and affection, and discourages enmity and hatred.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIslam<\/em> encourages us to maintain ties with non Muslim<\/em> family members as well. When Islam<\/em> encourages maintaining ties with non Muslim<\/em> family members, then to a greater extent we are required to maintain ties with our Muslim<\/em> family members.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIt is advisable that you exercise tolerance and forbearance with your mother despite the way she has treated you and inshaAllaah<\/em> you will be rewarded for your patience.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tOnly Allah Ta’ala knows best<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tUstadha Umm Abdullah<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tChecked and Approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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