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\n\tFatwa ID: 02603<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by: <\/strong>Maulana Mujahid Hussain<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tMy husband is 45yrs of age, we both are doctors and have 2 kids. He is a
\n\tpatient of high blood pressure and also has a psychiatric problem (panic disorder) diagnosed by doctors for last few years. Under the effect of his medical conditions, he can't control himself at the time of some tension. Whenever he becomes angry he shows extremely aggressive attitude & loses control over himself, he also has a very unstable mental condition which is a symptom of his medical condition. I am now used to his attitude considering his medical problem.<\/p>\n

\tOnce he was upset with some matter at home and he started blaming and cursing me for that. Usually, I used to keep quiet. But on that day, I also became angry replied him rudely. This triggered his anger more & he then started abusing me, I reacted to his behaviour so he started beating me out of intense anger. Due to which I taunted him impudently. He felt too much insult.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tThis situation took him to height of his anger he became almost mad with anger and told me " you are divorced". I became extremely upset listening to these words as I was not expecting it in our relation. We are not an ideal couple but are strongly committed to be in marital relation. So I left the house.<\/p>\n

\tLater on when his anger settled down he became very embarrassed & upset. He felt sorry and deep grief for what has happened. He apologise to me and told me that his intention was not to divorce me.<\/p>\n

\tI want to ask does this divorce valid.
\n\tI was also having menses at that time.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswer<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAssalamualaykum<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tBefore I answer your question, I would like to point out that most divorces are issued at the time of anger. We get a lot of questions about the husband giving divorce whilst he was angry and it's very rare to hear of a couple divorcing when they are calm, relaxed and in their own element.<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tThe ruling of divorce at the time of anger is as follows:<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAs long as a person remains conscious of his decisions and his anger has not reached a point where he has lost control of his speech and action, then the divorce will occur. For clarification of this statement let me mention a few scenarios;<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n