{"id":10726,"date":"2018-11-30T18:39:53","date_gmt":"2018-11-30T18:39:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=10726"},"modified":"2018-11-30T18:39:53","modified_gmt":"2018-11-30T18:39:53","slug":"is-using-neuro-linguistic-programming-permissible-when-speaking-to-ones-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/is-using-neuro-linguistic-programming-permissible-when-speaking-to-ones-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"Is using Neuro-linguistic programming permissible when speaking to ones wife?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 02669<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by: Aalimah Sabrina Saidova<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion:<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAsalam Alaikum<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tI would like to know can I speak to my wife by implanting thoughts in her mind to love me without her realizing this consciously to improve my marriage.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tThese techniques are taught in NLP Neuro-linguistic programming which teaches people how to use language to influence others by saying a sentence in a way where you are telling the mind what to do. These are used in sales etc<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tFOr e.g instead of saying you should love me, I said to her you can feel yourself loving me more and more now.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIs this permissible for me to do?<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t\u0628\u0650\u0633\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0645\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0650\u064a\u0652\u0645<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tThe activity seems absolutely harmless. As principal, in our Shari’ah, everything is in a neutral state (mubah<\/i>), in other words; permissible, until and unless an explicit text in the Shari’ah states otherwise. <\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAlso, this activity doesn’t seem to include anything that might lead to the crossing of Shari’ah’s borders, therefore, it is permissible for you to do this. <\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAlongside that, I advise you to make du’a to Allah Ta’ala to develop the love between your wife and yourself as your matter is in the hands of Allah Ta’ala Himself and nothing can be better than making du’a from He who is in control of your affairs: Allah Ta’ala himself.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnd Allah Ta’ala knows best<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by Alimah Sabrina Saidova<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tChecked and approved by Mufti Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tDarulIfta Birmingham<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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