{"id":10753,"date":"2018-12-12T18:22:05","date_gmt":"2018-12-12T18:22:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=10753"},"modified":"2018-12-12T18:22:05","modified_gmt":"2018-12-12T18:22:05","slug":"a-man-forcefully-marrying-a-woman-who-is-in-somebody-elses-nikah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/a-man-forcefully-marrying-a-woman-who-is-in-somebody-elses-nikah\/","title":{"rendered":"A man forcefully marrying a woman who is in somebody else&#8217;s nikah"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 02679<\/strong><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Answered by:&nbsp;Maulana Imran Mughal <\/strong><strong> <\/strong><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">My name Hasan. I am a male, age 30 from Bangladesh, and a <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">sunni<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> Muslim.<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<br \/>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">I married two months ago, and I had known my wife (Her name Ferdousi) for the last 3 years. She has been raised in<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">step-mother<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> family, while her dad passed away at <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">early<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> age.<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<br \/>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Her<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">step mother<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> used to exploit her. A local influential and rich person (His name Shamim) saw her at <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">early<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> age, and bribed her step-mother with a lot of money to <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">arrange &nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">marriage<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> with Ferdousi. <\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">But Shamim had already a wife and children. Ferdousi used to hate Shamim. But Shamim, being <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">rich<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> and influential person in <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">locality<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">, nothing could be done against him.<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<br \/>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">With this situation being continued, I and Ferdousi decided to get<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">marry<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> in July 2018 without informing the <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">step mother<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> because we were afraid of Shamim&#39;s threats. <\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">After one month of <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">marriage<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> I came to abroad in August 2018 for pursuing PhD degree and left her in <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">country<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">. As soon as Shamim and her <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">step mother<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> knew about her marriage, they became very violent and tortured her. <\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Now, Shamim has managed all the local law with <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">huge<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> amount of bribe, and I am a poor man without any family support to take any lawful action against Shamim.<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<br \/>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">As of September 2018, Shamim has threatened Ferdousi to divorce me and marry Shamim (as I told<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">shamim<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> had already a wife and children). Otherwise, Shamim will file <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">lawsuit<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> against me, my family falsely with fabricated <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">evidences<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> (bought by money), and start to harass me. <\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Feeling afraid, my wife has submitted to Shamim&#39;s conditions.<br \/>\n\tMy wife signed a divorce paper of our marriage on 27 Sept. 2018 &nbsp;but not from the heart but in the fear of threats by Shamim. I also did not utter any word of divorce to my wife. <\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Now, <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">shamim<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> will marry my wife after a week, even though it is mandatory to wait three months after <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">divorce<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">. But Shamim will not wait.<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<br \/>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">And my wife told me that this marriage with<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">shamim<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> is against her will, and she will only utter &quot;<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Kobul<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">&quot; (acceptance word) during the marriage with <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">shamim<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> by remembering my name and face in her heart. <\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Later, I and my wife has planned that after 3\/4 years, when I will complete my PhD and join a job and make my economic position and social status high enough to fight with Shamim, then she will return to me and divorce <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">shamim<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> in the court.<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<br \/>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Since I am a student<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">yet,<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> and have no powerful social status, and money, I can&#39;t fight with Shamim. So I accepted her <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">proposal,<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> and consoled her. In our heart, we decided to keep <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">patience,<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> and reunite again.<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<br \/>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">My question is: <\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">1. Since my wife is forced to marry Shamim, is it a valid marriage?<br \/>\n\t2. Since my wife merely signed divorce paper with me out of force by Shamim, will it be a valid Islamic divorce in the eye of Allah?<br \/>\n\t3. My wife told me to keep in touch with her, and call her sometimes after marriage with<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">shamim<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">, will it be lawful in the eye of Islam?<br \/>\n\tWe both are<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">victim<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> of <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">zulum<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> by a rich, influential person who buys law and order with money. <\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Law system being corrupt in the country, it is useless to fight against him with bare hands.<br \/>\n\tSo, please reply three of the above questions of me.<\/span><br \/>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>\u0628\u0650\u0633\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0645\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0650\u064a\u0652\u0645<\/strong><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong><u>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.<\/u><\/strong><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">First and foremost, it is extremely <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">said<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> to hear about your story, and I hope Allah will free you from all your troubles.<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\n\t\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">As long as a marriage <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">fulfills<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> the following conditions, it will be valid according to the Shariah, <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">however<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> those that are responsible for forcefully conducting this marriage will be sinful.<\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>\n\t\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">An Ijaab (proposal) from one party and the Qubool (acceptance) from the other in one majlis (gathering).<\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n<li>\n\t\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">The presence of two male witnesses or one male and two female witnesses, and that they have understood the proposal and acceptance.<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\" title=\"\">[1]<\/a><\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li value=\"2\">\n\t\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">A divorce without the <\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">husbands<\/span><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"> consent or clear approval will not be valid according to the Shariah. Therefore, if you have not signed anything to divorce her she is not divorced.<\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n<li value=\"3\">\n\t\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Keeping in mind the second answer, technically speaking the divorce is not complete and therefore, her nikah with Shamim in not valid in any sense and your nikah with Ferdousi is still intact.<\/span>\n\t<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><a name=\"_GoBack\"><\/a>&nbsp;<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">And Allah SWT alone knows best.<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Answered by Maulana Imran Mughal<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Checked and approved Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<div>\n\t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr align=\"left\" size=\"1\" width=\"33%\" \/>\n<div id=\"ftn1\">\n<p>\n\t\t\t<span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\" title=\"\">[1]<\/a><em>Fatawa Hindiyyah <\/em>(Beirut: DKI Publishers, 2000), 1:295-298.<\/span>\n\t\t<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 02679 Answered by:&nbsp;Maulana Imran Mughal Question: My name Hasan. 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