{"id":11074,"date":"2019-03-21T17:28:22","date_gmt":"2019-03-21T17:28:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=11074"},"modified":"2020-05-21T14:54:43","modified_gmt":"2020-05-21T14:54:43","slug":"physical-contact-before-marriae","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/physical-contact-before-marriae\/","title":{"rendered":"Physical Contact Before Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 02754<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by:  Maulana Muddasser Dhedhy <\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAssalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah,<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIf prior to the wedding, I had physical contact with my "now wife", would I be accountable for it? In terms of punishment mentioned in Islam, what is the punishment?<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

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\n\tIn the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAssalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakaatuh,<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn Islam, a woman becomes one’s wife after the Nikah; comprising of I’jaab (offer) and Qubool (acceptance) in the presence of witnesses and usually, an Imam or marriage celebrant has taken place.[1]<\/sup><\/sup><\/a> Some cultures have a separate event called 'Rukhsati' which takes place sometime after the Nikaah. It is after this event that the husband and wife start living together.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn your question, if by ‘wedding’ you mean Rukhsati and the physical contact you had with your wife took place after the nikah, then you have not violated any rules of the Shariah.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tHowever, if by wedding you mean the Nikah ceremony, then you have both committed a major sin for which you both must seek sincere forgiveness. However, this act that was committed prior to Nikaah will not affect your marriage now.[2]<\/sup><\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tOnly Allah knows best<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tWritten by Maulana Muddasser Dhedhy<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tChecked and approved by Aalimah Sabrina al-Faarsiyyah<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

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