{"id":13630,"date":"2020-03-05T17:44:14","date_gmt":"2020-03-05T17:44:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=13630"},"modified":"2020-03-05T20:13:09","modified_gmt":"2020-03-05T20:13:09","slug":"is-talking-in-a-flirty-way-effect-a-rujuu-in-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/is-talking-in-a-flirty-way-effect-a-rujuu-in-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Talking in a Flirty way Effect a Rujuu in Divorce?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 03375<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by: Shaykh Umer Khan\u200b<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAssalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tif a man gives a woman one divorce. He then talks with her in a flirty way, does she come back into his nikah?<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t\u0628\u0650\u0633\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0645\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0650\u064a\u0652\u0645<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong> <\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswer<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tThe jurists have stated that there are two ways of effecting ruj\u016b\u02bb (reconciliation) after one \u1e6dal\u0101q (divorce):<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t1.      Ruj\u016b\u02bb by speech<\/b>. This is accomplished through the husband saying something like "I have made Ruj\u016b\u02bb" or "I have retained you". Ruj\u016b\u02bb by speech will take effect on whether the wife is present or not. If she is not present, it is best to have two witnesses present (Raddu al-Mu\u1e25t\u0101r, 5\/25).<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t2.      Ruj\u016b\u02bb by action<\/b>. \u02bbAll\u0101mah Ibn \u02bb\u0100bid\u012bn said that ruj\u016b\u02bb by action requires lust\/desire on the part of the husband and\/or the wife, and either of the following:<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t·         Touching his wife, having intercourse with her, kissing her (including the face, forehead, and lips), or touching her (with or without an intervening cloth) where the heat of the body is felt with desire.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t·         Looking at the inside of the wife's private parts with the intention of ruj\u016b\u02bb.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIt is praiseworthy to make ruj\u016b\u02bb by speech and disliked doing it by action (Raddu al-Mu\u1e25t\u0101r, 5\/24).<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tTalking in a flirty way does not result in ruj\u016b\u02bb (reconciliation), because it is not clear\/explicit. However, talking in such a way should be avoided during the \u02bbiddah (waiting period).<\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tOnly Allah knows best<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tWritten by Shaykh Umer Khan<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tChecked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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