{"id":13794,"date":"2020-03-10T16:23:26","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T16:23:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=13794"},"modified":"2020-03-10T22:04:16","modified_gmt":"2020-03-10T22:04:16","slug":"doubting-whether-i-uttered-talaq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/doubting-whether-i-uttered-talaq\/","title":{"rendered":"Doubting Whether I Uttered Talaq"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 03405<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Answered by: Maulana Mustafa Umar\u200b<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong><u>Question<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">I am a married man and require urgent help. I need a reply fast, please.&nbsp;<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\tI <span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">have been affected by waswasa for the last 10 years almost. Now after my marriage I am getting thoughts of divorce a lot. To an extent that even if I am writing the word divorce here I have to fight the waswasa.&nbsp;<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">I don&#39;t want to leave my wife at all.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Recently some sentences regarding divorce have been running in my mind. I have tried to control a lot but have failed. Few times while the sentence was running in my mind when the word talaq came my tongue moved a little. It happened 2-3 times maybe I am not sure. Now I have been fighting to see whether the tongue only moved or the whole world came to my mouth. What should I do, take it as waswasa or what? I also am afraid of lying to Allah.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">I am really scared. I don&#39;t want to lose my wife at all.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\" dir=\"RTL\">\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">\u0628\u0650\u0633\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0645\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0650\u064a\u0652\u0645<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong><u>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong>&nbsp;<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong><u>Answer<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Divorce only counts when it is pronounced or written clearly and is directed at your wife. If you merely say the statement of divorce because it is in your mind but you do not direct it at your wife when you speak it then it will not count. [Badai&rsquo; As-Sanai&rsquo; 4:230]<a name=\"_GoBack\"><\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Only Allah knows best<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Written by Maulana Mustafa Umar<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:14px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 03405 Answered by: Maulana Mustafa Umar\u200b Question I am a married man and require urgent help. 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