{"id":14554,"date":"2020-04-29T00:32:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-29T00:32:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=14554"},"modified":"2020-04-29T00:32:57","modified_gmt":"2020-04-29T00:32:57","slug":"can-a-woman-relieve-her-desires-by-herself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/can-a-woman-relieve-her-desires-by-herself\/","title":{"rendered":"Can a Woman Relieve Her Desires by Herself?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 03608<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by: Maulana Belaal Ahmed<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

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\n\tQuestion<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAssalamu alaikum<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tI think there is a masala that if a man has sexual desire, then he can relieve himself by himself (i.e. with his hands).<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tSomeone asked that if there is such a masala, then can a woman also relieve herself like so? For example, if she is married and her husband travels for long periods of time for business, four months jamaat, etc, what can a woman do if she's feeling sexually excited?<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

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\n\t\u0628\u0650\u0633\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0645\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0650\u064a\u0652\u0645<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

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\n\tAnswer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

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\n\tAllah Almighty states, “Success is really attained by the believers …. who guard their private parts except from their wives or from those (bondwomen who are) owned by their hands, as they are not to be blamed. However, those who seek (sexual pleasure) beyond that are the transgressors” (Surah al Mu'minoon)<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn regards to the above question, one must understand that to relieve oneself with one's hands is a major sin and disliked by Allah (swt).<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tFirstly, it is important to understand the masala. In the Hanafi Fiqh, such an action is not allowed and is counted as a sin.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn the abovementioned conditions, with regards to controlling oneself when such urges come, one should try one's best to completely avoid anything that leads to the sin.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tBelow are some things which may help somebody experiencing such a predicament:<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n