{"id":16123,"date":"2020-07-15T19:56:15","date_gmt":"2020-07-15T19:56:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=16123"},"modified":"2020-07-15T19:56:15","modified_gmt":"2020-07-15T19:56:15","slug":"does-saying-im-done-with-you-constitute-a-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/does-saying-im-done-with-you-constitute-a-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"Does Saying “I’m Done With You” Constitute a Divorce?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\tFatwa ID: 03966<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswered by: Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tQuestion<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn an argument with the wife, I uttered the words – “I'm done with you, I'm done with this relationship, go back to your parents.” I uttered these words multiple times. At the time, in anger, my intention was to scare her but the thought of divorce did cross my mind. I can remember thinking that maybe a divorce wouldn't be a bad idea. I would definitely have used the term 'divorce' had I explicitly intended for it. Of course, I regret the whole situation now. Can you please provide an answer regarding this?<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\t\u0628\u0650\u0633\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0645\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u062d\u0650\u064a\u0652\u0645<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tIn the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tAnswer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tThe aforementioned words are considered to be Kinaya words.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tKinaya means using words that are not normally used for divorce but rather hints towards divorce. Divorce will not take place unless you intended it.[1]<\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tIf at the time of saying these words you did intend divorce, then one talaaq bain would take place. If you want to stay in the marriage, then you will have to redo the nikah in the presence of two witnesses.[2]<\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t \n<\/p>\n

\n\tOnly Allah knows best<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tWritten by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\tDarul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n

\n\t <\/p>\n

\n\t\t \n\t<\/p>\n

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\n\t\t\t[1]<\/a> Hidaya v.2 p.373 & Fatawa Hindiya v.1 p.374<\/span><\/span>\n\t\t<\/p>\n

\n\t\t\t \n\t\t<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n

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\n\t\t\t[2]<\/a> Hidaya v2 p374<\/span><\/span>\n\t\t<\/p>\n

\n\t\t\t \n\t\t<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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