{"id":17006,"date":"2020-10-19T13:41:47","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T13:41:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=17006"},"modified":"2020-10-19T13:41:47","modified_gmt":"2020-10-19T13:41:47","slug":"duas-for-a-pious-spouse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/duas-for-a-pious-spouse\/","title":{"rendered":"Duas for a Pious Spouse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 04182<\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<strong><span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Answered by:&nbsp;Mufti Muhammad Adnan <\/span><\/span><\/strong>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<u><span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>Question<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/u>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">I wanted to ask what one can do in order to get a husband. I mean like&nbsp;prayers etc. can you mention any duas or practices a Woman can read so&nbsp;that she may find a husband. I&#39;ve been making lots of dua even at iftar&nbsp;time but no luck yet. I&#39;m starting to give up hope &amp; I feel like I&#39;m&nbsp;getting too old soon. In my duas I used to mention &#39;Allah-grant me a&nbsp;pious husband when the time is right for me&#39; I did that dua for months&nbsp;until recently when I started getting impatient &amp; started saying &#39;Ya&nbsp;Allah grant me a good pious husband&#39;<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">If you have any advice regarding this matter it would be much&nbsp;appreciated. Jazakumullah Khair,<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n\t<u><span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong>In the name of Allah, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/u>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><strong><u>Answer<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">As Muslims, we believe in Taqdeer. Everything is predestined and in the absolute knowledge of Allah. This includes one&rsquo;s marriage. Everything will happen according to Taqdeer; whom one will marry and when. Turn to Allah and seek His guidance in searching for your destined marriage partner. We live in this world of means and adopt means for everything we need. Marriage is no different. Adopt all possible means within the limits of Shariah to search for one&rsquo;s spouse. With that, the following may be useful as it is tried and tested.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">One may practice on something that is tried and tested, without regarding it as compulsory in Shari&rsquo;ah:<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">1)&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Recite Durood 500 times daily.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">2)&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; The du&rsquo; of Musa&nbsp;<em>&lsquo;Alayhis Salaam<\/em>&nbsp;that you have mentioned is also useful.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span dir=\"RTL\">\u0631\u064e\u0628\u0651\u0650 \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u0649 \u0644\u0650\u0645\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0632\u064e\u0644\u062a\u064e \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0649\u0651\u064e \u0645\u0650\u0646 \u062e\u064e\u064a\u0631\u064d \u0641\u064e\u0642\u064a\u0631\u064c<\/span>&nbsp;<br \/>\n\t&#39;&#39;O my Lord! Truly I am in need of whatever good You bestow on me&#39;&#39;<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Surah Al-Qasas, verse 24<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Also, recite abundant&nbsp;<em>istighf\u0101r&nbsp;<\/em>as it is a means of resolving difficulties.&nbsp;&nbsp;Ras\u016blull\u0101h Sallall\u0101hu A&rsquo;layhi Wa Sallam said:<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span dir=\"RTL\">&nbsp;\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0644\u064e\u0632\u0650\u0645\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0627\u0650\u0633\u0652\u062a\u0650\u063a\u0652\u0641\u064e\u0627\u0631\u064e \u062c\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u0650 \u0636\u0650\u064a\u0642\u064d \u0645\u064e\u062e\u0652\u0631\u064e\u062c\u064b\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u0650 \u0647\u064e\u0645\u0651\u064d \u0641\u064e\u0631\u064e\u062c\u064b\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0632\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u062d\u064e\u064a\u0652\u062b\u064f \u0644\u0627\u064e \u064a\u064e\u062d\u0652\u062a\u064e\u0633\u0650\u0628\u064f&nbsp;&nbsp;(\u0627\u0628\u0648 \u062f\u0627\u0648\u062f, \u0631\u0642\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u062f\u064a\u062b 1518)<\/span><\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Whosoever does istighfar abundantly, Allah will create for him an exit from every narrow path, and will create for him an opening from every distress and will provide for him from where he could not imagine.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">(Abu D\u0101w\u016bd, Had\u012bth #1518)<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Also perform salatul h\u0101jah, the method of performing salaatul h\u0101jah&nbsp;is that the one in need should:-<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Properly perform wudh\u016b<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Pray two raka\u0101&rsquo;t sal\u0101h<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Praise Allah Ta\u0101&rsquo;la<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Send dur\u016bd on Nabi Sallall\u0101hu Alayhi Wa Sallam<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Recite the following dua:<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p dir=\"RTL\">\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">\u0644\u0627\u0625\u0644\u0647 \u0625\u0644\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0644\u064a\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0643\u0631\u064a\u0645 \u0633\u0628\u062d\u0627\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0631\u0628 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0631\u0634 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0638\u064a\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0645\u062f \u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0631\u0628 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0627\u0644\u0645\u064a\u0646 \u0623\u0633\u0626\u0644\u0643 \u0645\u0648\u062c\u0628\u0627\u062a \u0631\u062d\u0645\u062a\u0643 \u0648\u0639\u0632\u0627\u0626\u0645 \u0645\u063a\u0641\u0631\u062a\u0643 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u063a\u0646\u064a\u0645\u0629 \u0645\u0646 \u0643\u0644 \u0628\u0631 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645\u0629 \u0645\u0646 \u0643\u0644 \u0625\u062b\u0645 \u0644\u0627 \u062a\u062f\u0639 \u0644\u064a \u0630\u0646\u0628\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0627 \u063a\u0641\u0631\u062a\u0647 \u0648\u0644\u0627 \u0647\u0645\u0627 \u0625\u0644\u0627 \u0641\u0631\u062c\u062a\u0647 \u0648\u0644\u0627 \u062d\u0627\u062c\u0629 \u0647\u064a \u0644\u0643 \u0631\u0636\u0627 \u0625\u0644\u0627 \u0642\u0636\u064a\u062a\u0647\u0627 \u064a\u0627 \u0623\u0631\u062d\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0627\u062d\u0645\u064a\u0646<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p dir=\"RTL\">\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Translation:&nbsp;There there no god but Allah the Clement and Wise.&nbsp;There is no god but Allah the High and Mighty.&nbsp;Glory be to Allah, Lord of the Tremendous Throne.&nbsp;&nbsp;All praise is to Allah, Lord of the worlds.&nbsp;&nbsp;I ask you (O Allah) everything that leads to your mercy, and your tremendous forgiveness, enrichment in all good, and freedom from all sin.&nbsp;&nbsp;Do not leave a sin of mine (O Allah), except that you forgive it, nor any concern except that you create for it an opening, nor any need in which there is your good pleasure except that you fulfill it, O Most Merciful!<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">(Tirmidhi, Hadith # 477)<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">And if circumstances do not permit the performance of two rak\u0101&rsquo;t sal\u0101t, then one should simply turn to Allah in humility and ask of his needs.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Most importantly, practice on Shari&rsquo;ah, adopt Taqwa, and make dua to Allah to help you achieve your objective.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Only Allah knows best<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Written by Mufti Muhammad Adnan<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t<span style=\"font-size:16px;\"><span style=\"font-family:verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/span>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\t&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 04182 Answered by:&nbsp;Mufti Muhammad Adnan &nbsp; Question &nbsp; I wanted to ask what one can do in order to get a husband. 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