{"id":21200,"date":"2021-04-05T21:25:46","date_gmt":"2021-04-05T21:25:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=21200"},"modified":"2021-04-05T21:25:46","modified_gmt":"2021-04-05T21:25:46","slug":"husband-said-to-wife-yes-i-agree-its-over-and-i-dont-want-to-be-with-someone-who-doesnt-want-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/husband-said-to-wife-yes-i-agree-its-over-and-i-dont-want-to-be-with-someone-who-doesnt-want-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Husband Said to Wife: Yes I Agree It\u2019s Over and I Don\u2019t Want To Be With Someone Who Doesn\u2019t Want Me"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fatwa ID: 05192<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Maulana Muqtaur Rahman<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Husband said to wife: yes I agree it’s over and I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want me… the result is divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n

Has talaq happened? And would this be raji or bain?<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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There are two types of talaq<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Sareeh: This is when the husband clearly issues his wife a talaq and there is no possibility of the statement having an alternative meaning. A revocable divorce will take place.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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    In this category, the intention of the husband will not be taken into consideration[1]<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    1. Kinayah: This is when the husband uses unclear phrases or words accompanied with the intention of talaq are used to issue a talaq to the wife. A divorce absolute will occur as a result of this.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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      In this category, the intention of the husband will be taken into consideration[2]<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      In regards to your question, Although the wording divorce was mentioned in the phrase \u201cthe result is divorce\u201d, however, there is no clarity if it was said as the outcome of the previous speech \u201cI don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want me\u201d or it was for issuing a clear divorce. This applies that it will fall under the category of Kinayah.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      So, if the intention of divorce was present then Talaq Bain will occur. if the intention of divorce was not present then Talaq will not occur. Yet we strongly advise caution when uttering such words as means of safety and peace.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      Only Allah knows best<\/span><\/p>\n

      Written by Maulana Muqtaur Rahman<\/span><\/p>\n

      Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

      Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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      [1]<\/a> Badai\u2019 Sanai, v.4 p.222, DKI prints<\/span><\/p>\n

      [2]<\/a> Al-Lubab, v.1 p.443-444, Umariyyah Publishers<\/span><\/p>\n

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