{"id":22477,"date":"2021-12-30T20:39:14","date_gmt":"2021-12-30T20:39:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=22477"},"modified":"2021-12-30T20:39:14","modified_gmt":"2021-12-30T20:39:14","slug":"husband-and-wife-differing-about-the-number-of-divorces-that-have-occured","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/husband-and-wife-differing-about-the-number-of-divorces-that-have-occured\/","title":{"rendered":"Husband and Wife Differing About the Number of Divorces That Have Occured"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fatwa ID: 05687<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Maulana Sibghat Ullah<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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As-Salam Alaykum so in my wife’s view I have issued 3 talaq<\/span><\/p>\n

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Once the first occasion, I have issued a talaq, however on the second occasion what I uttered was not a talaq but said something similar so that she thought I said the second one.<\/span><\/p>\n

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I have now issued the second one, but my wife is unsure and believes it’s the third one.<\/span><\/p>\n

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I am 100% sure the second was not uttered and the intention to divorce was not there and it was just a trick to calm her down. I never told her since now that I didn’t actually say the second one and she thinks I am lying.<\/span><\/p>\n

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What is the ruling on this, I still want to be with her?<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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There are a few scenarios that I will mention which may answer your questions.<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. If you have said words like \u201cYou are free\u201d or \u201cget out\u201d and you didn\u2019t intend a divorce, then a divorce will not occur. [i]<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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    1. If the situation is such that you said words that could only mean divorce in such a situation then the divorce will occur.[ii]<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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      1. If your wife thinks that you have given her a divorce and the situation was also that she could only understand it to be divorce then in such a situation divorce will occur. [iii]<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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        Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n

        Written by Maulana Sibghat Ullah<\/span><\/p>\n

        Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

        Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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        [i]<\/a> Radul Mukhtar, Book of Divorce, Page 703<\/span><\/p>\n

        (\u0641) \u0627\u0644\u0643\u0646\u0627\u064a\u0627\u062a (\u0644\u0627\u062a\u0637\u0644\u0642\u0628\u0647\u0627 ) \u0642\u0636\u0627\u0621 (\u0627\u0644\u0627 \u0628\u0646\u064a\u0629 \u0627\u0624 \u062f\u0644\u0627\u0644\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0627\u0644 )<\/span><\/p>\n

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        [ii]<\/a>[ii]Radul Mukhtar, Vol 4, \u00a0Book of Divorce, chapter of Kinaya, \u00a0Page 516, Maktabat ul Waheediya:-<\/span><\/p>\n

        \u0627\u0644\u0643\u0646\u0627\u064a\u0627\u062a (\u0644\u0627 \u062a\u0637\u0644\u0642 \u0628\u0647\u0627) \u0642\u0636\u0627\u0621 \u0627\u0644\u0627 \u0628\u0646\u064a\u0629 \u0622\u0648 \u062f\u0644\u0627\u0644\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0627\u0644<\/span><\/p>\n

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        [iii]<\/a>[iii]Radul Mukhtar, Vol 4, \u00a0Book of Divorce, chapter of Kinaya, \u00a0Page 516, Maktabat ul Waheediya:-<\/span><\/p>\n

        \u0627\u0644\u0643\u0646\u0627\u064a\u0627\u062a (\u0644\u0627 \u062a\u0637\u0644\u0642 \u0628\u0647\u0627) \u0642\u0636\u0627\u0621 \u0627\u0644\u0627 \u0628\u0646\u064a\u0629 \u0622\u0648 \u062f\u0644\u0627\u0644\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0627\u0644<\/span><\/p>\n

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        Fatwa ID: 05687   Answered by: Maulana Sibghat Ullah   Question:     As-Salam Alaykum so in my wife’s view I have issued 3 talaq…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22477"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22477"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22477\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23506,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22477\/revisions\/23506"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22477"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22477"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22477"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}