{"id":22827,"date":"2021-12-21T20:35:27","date_gmt":"2021-12-21T20:35:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/?p=22827"},"modified":"2021-12-21T20:35:27","modified_gmt":"2021-12-21T20:35:27","slug":"oath-to-divorce-after-a-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/oath-to-divorce-after-a-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Oath to Divorce after a Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 05616<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by: Maulana Muhammad Asadullah Anwar Adam<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If someone said that if I smoked tell 30 days then if someone marries me she will be\u00a0 3 times talaq on me( as I do not specify someone and give talaq before nikah and said anyone who marry me so she will be talaq on me 3 times if I smoked &#8230;now if I smoked within this 30 days so that I break the condition..now I want to marry so what will be the solution for it, sir?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">When someone attaches divorce to marriage by saying &#8220;If I marry then they will be divorced&#8221;, then the divorce will occur immediately after marriage, this is because it becomes an oath by the person who says it [1]<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Aisha (RA) narrated that Abu Bakr(RA) had never broken his oaths till Allah revealed the expiation for the oaths. Then he said, &#8220;If I take an oath to do something and later on I find something else better than the first one, then I do what is better and make expiation for my oath.&#8221;[2]<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">When an oath is broken there are a number of methods to expedite the sin of breaking an oath.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Emancipation of a slave. This is not possible in today\u2019s era.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Feeding 10 destitute people. This needs to be done with a minimum of 2 meals a day consisting of at least average market food value. A person may feed 1 person for 10 days or 10 different individuals. The monetary value of such foodstuff can also be given to the needy.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Providing essential clothing for 10 individuals. The clothing must be of average value and enough to cover the entire \u2018awra\u2019 (majority of the body) without the expectation of it being returned to you.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If one cannot fulfil any of the requirements in the above-mentioned methods then the last option is to fast for 3 consecutive days.[3]<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">In your case, you should break your oath to divorce when you get married and fulfil one of the above to expedite the sin of breaking your oath.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah knows best<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Maulana Muhammad Asadullah Anwar Adam<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">[1] Hidayah, page 195, volume 3, Maktabul Bushra print<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">{\u0648\u0627\u0630\u0627\u0623\u0636\u0627\u0641\u0627\u0644\u0637\u0644\u0627\u0642\u0627\u0644\u0649\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0643\u062d\u0648\u0642\u0639\u0639\u0642\u064a\u0628\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0643\u062d&#8230;\u0623\u0646\u0647\u0630\u0627\u062a\u0635\u0631\u0641\u064a\u0645\u064a\u0646\u0644\u0648\u062c\u0648\u062f\u0627\u0644\u0634\u0631\u0637\u0648\u0627\u0644\u062c\u0632\u0627\u0621}<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">[2] Sahih al Bukhari hadith 6621<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; 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font-size: 12pt;\">[3] Raddul Mukhtar , volume 5 , page 503<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">{\u0648\u0643\u0641\u0627\u0631\u062a\u0647\u0646\u062d\u0631\u064a\u0631\u0631\u0642\u0628\u0629\u0623\u0648\u0627\u0637\u0639\u0627\u0645\u0639\u0634\u0648\u0629\u0645\u0633\u0627\u0643\u064a\u0646\u0623\u0648\u0643\u0633\u0648\u062a\u0647\u0645\u0628\u0645\u0627\u064a\u0633\u062a\u0631\u0639\u0627\u0645\u0629\u0627\u0644\u0628\u062f\u0646&#8230; \u0635\u0627\u0645\u062b\u0644\u0627\u062b\u0629\u0623\u064a\u0627\u0645\u0648\u0644\u0627\u0621 }<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 05616 &nbsp; Answered by: Maulana Muhammad Asadullah Anwar Adam &nbsp; Question: &nbsp; If someone said that if I smoked tell 30 days then&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22827"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22827"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22827\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23422,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22827\/revisions\/23422"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22827"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22827"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22827"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}