{"id":23926,"date":"2022-01-26T18:12:06","date_gmt":"2022-01-26T18:12:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=23926"},"modified":"2022-01-26T18:12:06","modified_gmt":"2022-01-26T18:12:06","slug":"can-a-wife-prevent-her-daughter-visiting-her-paternal-grandparents","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/can-a-wife-prevent-her-daughter-visiting-her-paternal-grandparents\/","title":{"rendered":"Can a Wife Prevent Her Daughter Visiting Her Paternal Grandparents"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 05797<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by: Shaykh Ahmed bin Mohamed Umarji<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I am the of the wife of Mohd Ismail, as there were disputes between me and my mother in law I have demanded a separate accommodation after we started living separately mother in law announced me not in enter her premises, even she started to abuse me with bad words once I accidentally stepped in her premises. Although my husband is taking care of her meeting all the Haq as a son (with respect to money, meeting, staying with her, taking her out etc..) then I am totally struck to climb a single step in her premises ok with a heavy heart I took that but then my husband started taking my daughter to meet her grandmother on a daily basis, which I am not able to cope with since I was abused with bad words just for living separately and also not permitted to go to that place. When I am not allowed to go to that place then why should I send my daughter to that place. I am really feeling sad about this but my husband doesn&#8217;t listen to me. He just said he is also his daughter&#8217;s father and will definitely take his daughter with him to meet grandmother.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Our Deen gives a lot of importance to family ties. This is highlighted in one of the final pieces of advice of The Prophet (Peace and Blessings Upon Him).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Anas reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said in his illness before he passed away, \u201cYour family relations! Your family relations!\u201d [S\u0323ah\u0323i\u0304h\u0323 Ibn H\u0323ibba\u0304n 463]<a href=\"#sdfootnote1sym\"><sup>1<\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Your husband has the right to take your daughter to visit his mother. It is impermissible to prevent the grandmother from seeing her granddaughter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah knows best<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Shaykh Ahmed bin Mohamed Umarji<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><a href=\"#sdfootnote1anc\">1<\/a> \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u064e\u0633\u064d \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0635\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0645\u064e \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0645\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0636\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 436 \u0635\u062d\u064a\u062d \u0627\u0628\u0646 \u062d\u0628\u0627\u0646 \u0643\u062a\u0627\u0628 \u0627\u0644\u0628\u0631 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0625\u062d\u0633\u0627\u0646 \u0630\u0643\u0631 \u062d\u062b \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0635\u0637\u0641\u0649 \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645 \u0641\u064a \u0645\u0631\u0636\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0630\u064a \u0642\u0628\u0636<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 05797 &nbsp; Answered by: Shaykh Ahmed bin Mohamed Umarji &nbsp; Question: &nbsp; I am the of the wife of Mohd Ismail, as there&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23926"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23926"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23926\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23933,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23926\/revisions\/23933"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23926"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23926"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23926"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}