{"id":24267,"date":"2022-02-14T19:36:41","date_gmt":"2022-02-14T19:36:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=24267"},"modified":"2022-02-14T19:38:29","modified_gmt":"2022-02-14T19:38:29","slug":"leaving-with-the-intention-of-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/leaving-with-the-intention-of-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"Leaving With the Intention of Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 05866<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by: Maulana Nazrul Islam<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I am writing in hope that you may help me with a bit of a confusing issue regarding the status of my marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Here is a brief timeline of what has occurred so far:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">18th March 2021<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Spouse decided he will leave and we will separate and get divorced. He stopped all marital responsibility from this day- evidence is in: texts and recent verbal confirmation from himself<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">14th April 2021<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">He moves out<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">17th May 2021<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Communication (regarding property finance\/belongings) fully stopped.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">June\/July 2021<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">He sleeps\/has intimacy with someone he knew before he met me<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">23rd of November 2021<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">He tries to contact me after 8 months from separation etc<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">My issue is if in March 2021 he separated from me, stopped his role and duties as a husband, and moves out shortly after, WITH intention of divorce but then changes his mind (after 8 months) well after iddah period or 3\/4 months have passed and finished- has 1 divorce already taken place and has our marriage terminated? If so, does he have to do a nikkah with me if he wishes to take me back now.? I have found information from &#8216;islamqa.org&#8217; and &#8216;islamqa.info\/en&#8217; which shows that we have to do nikah again if he wants me back.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If the words divorce are used for the future tense, it will not occur until he says words such as, \u201cyou are divorced tomorrow or in the next month\u201d because divorce takes place with precise wordings at a certain time without times, so if tomorrow is made a circumstance for it, it does not happen before it. (1)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Separating with the intention of divorce does not invalidate the marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Similarly, falling into other sins such as drinking or unlawful sexual intercourse etc. doesn\u2019t constitute a divorce either.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">From the situation mentioned above, you are still married to him and divorce did not take place.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Maulana Nazrul Islam<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">(1)\u0648\u0625\u0646\u0652 \u0643\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0645\u064f\u0633\u0652\u062a\u064e\u0642\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0644\u064b\u0627 \u0644\u0627 \u064a\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0639\u064f \u062d\u064e\u062a\u0651\u0649 \u064a\u064e\u0623\u0652\u062a\u0650\u064a\u064e \u0628\u0650\u0623\u0646\u0652 \u0642\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0623\u0646\u0652\u062a\u0650 \u0637\u0627\u0644\u0650\u0642\u064c \u0641\u0650\u064a \u063a\u064e\u062f\u064d \u0623\u0648\u0652 \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0652\u0631\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u062a\u0650\u064a \u0644\u0650\u0623\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0637\u0651\u064e\u0644\u0627\u0642\u064e \u064a\u064e\u062d\u0652\u062a\u064e\u0645\u0650\u0644\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0650\u0627\u062e\u0652\u062a\u0650\u0635\u0627\u0635\u064e \u0628\u0650\u0648\u064e\u0642\u0652\u062a\u064d \u062f\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e \u0648\u0642\u0652\u062a\u064d \u0641\u064e\u0625\u0630\u0627 \u062c\u064f\u0639\u0650\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u063a\u064e\u062f\u064f \u0638\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0641\u064b\u0627 \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0644\u0627 \u064a\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0639\u064f \u0642\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0628\u062f\u0627\u0626\u0639 \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0646\u0627\u0626\u0639 \u062c\u0663 \u0635\u0662\u0665 \u062f\u0627\u0631 \u0627\u0644\u0643\u062a\u0628 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0644\u0645\u064a\u0629<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 05866 &nbsp; Answered by: Maulana Nazrul Islam &nbsp; Question: &nbsp; I am writing in hope that you may help me with a bit&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24267"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24267"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24267\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24274,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24267\/revisions\/24274"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24267"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24267"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24267"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}