{"id":25232,"date":"2022-05-16T19:19:26","date_gmt":"2022-05-16T19:19:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=25232"},"modified":"2022-05-16T19:19:26","modified_gmt":"2022-05-16T19:19:26","slug":"divorce-uttered-while-not-in-ones-senses","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/divorce-uttered-while-not-in-ones-senses\/","title":{"rendered":"Divorce Uttered While Not in One\u2019s Senses"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fatwa ID: 06050<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Maulana Muhammad Asadullah Anwar Adam<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Unfortunately. A few days ago I said to my wife 3 times that I give her talaq in extreme anger situations. Let me explain my mental state. I wouldn’t say that I was completely insane as that was not the case but I was close. I was so angry that I have not been that angry in years or probably ever. I was so angry that my head was spinning, and I was shouting so loud that I developed a sore throat. I knew I was talking to my wife and knew what I was saying but couldn’t control what I was saying. I didn’t realize that my kids got scared, ran to the room and were hiding under a blanket. As soon as I came to my senses I regretted saying what I said. I wasn’t under the influence of any drugs and I have no mental condition.<\/span><\/p>\n

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This isn’t the first occasion when I said verbal talaq to my wife, roughly 8 and 9 years ago I said verbal talaq to her on two different occasions. At that time I said it was a heated argument. My wife demanded me to divorce I was forced to say (I divorce you) 3 times verbally. I didn’t mean it and had no intention of divorcing her. The only reason I said was to end a heated argument and out of fear because I thought my wife would hurt herself or call 911 (police) (she had threatened me to do that on occasions). I was new in the USA at that time on a work visa and of course, being a Muslim didn’t want any trouble with authorities whatsoever. Both times we reconciled. Just to put things in context my wife has a medical condition where she isn’t able to control her emotions, especially anger and says things which she didn’t really mean (while not angry) and sometimes I say things just to end the argument.<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Talaq that is uttered by a husband occurs when the husband is sane and mature. Talaq that is uttered by a child, by one who is not in his senses, or by one who is sleeping does not occur. [1]<\/span><\/p>\n

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In your case, Talaq would not occur, In Sha Allah.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Only Allah knows best<\/span><\/p>\n

Written by Maulana Muhammad Asadullah Anwar Adam<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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[1] Hidayah, page 140 , volume 3 , Maktabul Bushra Print<\/span><\/p>\n

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