{"id":25579,"date":"2022-06-15T20:26:17","date_gmt":"2022-06-15T20:26:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=25579"},"modified":"2022-06-15T20:26:17","modified_gmt":"2022-06-15T20:26:17","slug":"hurmat-musaharah-doubt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/hurmat-musaharah-doubt\/","title":{"rendered":"Hurmat Musaharah Doubt"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fatwa ID: 06116<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Alimah Zakiratul Hoque<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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I was lying down in bed and my daughter is 2 years of age was laying in the middle wife on left anyways my daughter’s foot was touching my private area I was fully clothed I had my underwear and joggers on at the time I thought it was my wife bare in mind I couldn’t feel any heat, I’m not sure if I was erected if I was did it increase not sure lust also not sure if I did it was for wife but yeah I have doubts definitely regarding the erection and lust is not fully 100% convinced by I am 100% sure I felt no body heat from her foot but she is 2 YEARS OLD I have read on Mufti Tosir sahibs previous fatwas that the male has to be 12 and girl 9.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Divorce question does divorce occur when my wife was arguing I wasn’t angry or arguing back my wife accidentally broke my daughter’s bed and I said nothing 30 minutes later my mum came in the room and I said you could have either go around the cot or gone around does in this situation as it was 30 mins later I said go around cot or gone? I had no intention of divorce, similar situation my wife was putting my daughter to sleep and I was on phone talking or shuffling in bed and she said to go downstairs and I said no you go downstairs but I had no intentions of divorce in both situations no topic of separation was brought up.<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0633<\/strong> \u0625\u0646\u0645\u0627<\/strong> \u064a\u0648\u062c\u0628<\/strong> \u062d\u0631\u0645\u0629<\/strong> \u0645\u0635\u0627\u0647\u0631\u0629<\/strong> \u0625\u0630\u0627<\/strong> \u0644\u0645<\/strong> \u064a\u0643\u0646<\/strong> \u0628\u064a\u0646\u0647\u0645\u0627<\/strong> \u062b\u0648\u0628<\/strong> \u0623\u0645\u0627<\/strong> \u0625\u0630\u0627<\/strong> \u0643\u0627\u0646<\/strong> \u0628\u064a\u0646\u0647\u0645\u0627<\/strong> \u062b\u0648\u0628<\/strong> \u0641\u0625\u0646<\/strong> \u0643\u0627\u0646<\/strong> \u0635\u0641\u064a\u0642\u0627<\/strong> \u0644\u0627<\/strong> \u064a\u062c\u062f<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0627\u0633<\/strong> \u062d\u0631\u0627\u0631\u0629<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0645\u0633\u0648\u0633<\/strong> \u0644\u0627<\/strong> \u062a\u062b\u0628\u062a<\/strong> \u062d\u0631\u0645\u0629<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0635\u0627\u0647\u0631\u0629<\/strong> \u0648<\/strong> \u0625\u0646<\/strong> \u0627\u0646\u062a\u0634\u0631\u062a<\/strong> \u0622\u0644\u062a\u0647<\/strong> \u0628\u0630\u0644\u0643<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cTouching only results in Hurmat Musaaharah when there is no cloth in between the 2 individuals. If there is a cloth between them, if it is such that no heat can be felt through it, then Hurmat Musaharah is not established, even if there is an erection.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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As for your divorce questions:<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0641\u0631\u0643\u0646<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u0637\u0644\u0627\u0642<\/strong> \u0648<\/strong> \u0647\u0648<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0641\u0638<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u0630\u064a<\/strong> \u062c\u0639\u0644<\/strong> \u062f\u0644\u0627\u0644\u0629<\/strong> \u0639\u0644\u064a<\/strong> \u0645\u0639\u0646\u0649<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u0637\u0644\u0627\u0642<\/strong> \u0644\u063a\u0629<\/strong> \u0648<\/strong> \u0647\u0648<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u062a\u062e\u0644\u064a\u0629<\/strong> \u0648<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u0625\u0631\u0633\u0627\u0644<\/strong> \u0648<\/strong> \u0631\u0641\u0639<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u0642\u064a\u062f<\/strong> \u0641\u064a<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0631\u064a\u062d<\/strong> \u0648<\/strong> \u0642\u0637\u0639<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u0648\u0635\u0644\u0629<\/strong> \u0648<\/strong> \u0646\u062d\u0648\u0647<\/strong> \u0641\u064a<\/strong> \u0627\u0644\u0643\u0646\u0627\u064a\u0629<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cThe pillars of divorce are such a word that indicates to the meaning of divorce linguistically, and that is separation, sending, and the lifting of restriction in explicit divorce; and cutting off ties and similar things in the implicit divorce.\u201d (Badai Al Sanai, Vol 4, Pg 264)<\/span><\/p>\n

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Telling your wife to go around the cot or to go downstairs does not imply divorce in any way, therefore, no divorce took place.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n

Written by Alimah Zakiratul Hoque<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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