{"id":25581,"date":"2022-06-16T16:55:00","date_gmt":"2022-06-16T16:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=25581"},"modified":"2022-06-16T16:57:01","modified_gmt":"2022-06-16T16:57:01","slug":"divorce-after-being-diagnosed-ocd","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/divorce-after-being-diagnosed-ocd\/","title":{"rendered":"Divorce After Being Diagnosed OCD"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 06118<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by: Alimah Zakiratul Hoque<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I&#8217;ve been diagnosed with OCD. I have been getting a lot of talaq waswasa since last July. At first, I thought it was normal so I just ignore them but later on, it got to the level of severity that I can&#8217;t control my mind. Every time it comes to my mind apparently it looks like that Astaghfirullah I have repeated it or not. Then a series of compulsions start which I failed to control most of the time. Whenever these wasawis appeared in my mind my mind forced me to repeat those wasawis in a slow voice which is not audible. When I repeat them again new compulsion appeared that you have repeated those wasawis in loud voice and after that, I start approaching every Mufti in my vanity to ask questions about the word words which I have not uttered with a loud voice but my mind made me believe that astaghfirullah I may utter them with a loud voice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">What is the ruling of sharia if without any intention or will if a person did utter with a loud voice? Please do reply to me with references as well so I can bring peace to myself. I&#8217;m in great turmoil. I love my wife and astaghfirullah I never intended to use those words towards anyone<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><u><strong>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><u><strong>Answer:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If you have not actually said the words aloud, no divorce would occur as speaking (or writing) the words are necessary for a divorce to occur (Badai Al Sanai, Vol 4, Pg 264).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If you uttered explicit words of divorce aloud, your intention would not be considered and a revocable divorce would occur. However, if you uttered implicit words of divorce, your intention would be considered (Badai Al Sanai, Vol 4, Pg 271).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>\u0641\u0631\u0643\u0646<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0637\u0644\u0627\u0642<\/strong> <strong>\u0648<\/strong> <strong>\u0647\u0648<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0641\u0638<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0630\u064a<\/strong> <strong>\u062c\u0639\u0644<\/strong> <strong>\u062f\u0644\u0627\u0644\u0629<\/strong> <strong>\u0639\u0644\u064a<\/strong> <strong>\u0645\u0639\u0646\u0649<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0637\u0644\u0627\u0642<\/strong> <strong>\u0644\u063a\u0629<\/strong> <strong>\u0648<\/strong> <strong>\u0647\u0648<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u062a\u062e\u0644\u064a\u0629<\/strong> <strong>\u0648<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0625\u0631\u0633\u0627\u0644<\/strong> <strong>\u0648<\/strong> <strong>\u0631\u0641\u0639<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0642\u064a\u062f<\/strong> <strong>\u0641\u064a<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0635\u0631\u064a\u062d<\/strong> <strong>\u0648<\/strong> <strong>\u0642\u0637\u0639<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0648\u0635\u0644\u0629<\/strong> <strong>\u0648<\/strong> <strong>\u0646\u062d\u0648\u0647<\/strong> <strong>\u0641\u064a<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0643\u0646\u0627\u064a\u0629<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>\u0627\u0644\u0646\u064a\u0629<\/strong> <strong>\u0641\u064a<\/strong> <strong>\u0623\u062d\u062f<\/strong> <strong>\u0646\u0648\u0639\u064a<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0637\u0644\u0627\u0642<\/strong> <strong>\u0648<\/strong> <strong>\u0647\u0648<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0643\u0646\u0627\u064a\u0629<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Alimah Zakiratul Hoque<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 06118 &nbsp; Answered by: Alimah Zakiratul Hoque &nbsp; Question: &nbsp; I&#8217;ve been diagnosed with OCD. 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