{"id":25879,"date":"2022-07-17T08:05:12","date_gmt":"2022-07-17T08:05:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=25879"},"modified":"2022-07-17T08:05:12","modified_gmt":"2022-07-17T08:05:12","slug":"divorce-statement-as-a-joke","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/divorce-statement-as-a-joke\/","title":{"rendered":"Divorce Statement as a Joke"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fatwa ID: 06213<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Maulana Burhaan Rahman<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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My husband jokingly asked me to marry him and I wasn’t able to reply at the time. Later I asked him, “So are we married now?” He said “I don’t know, are we? You didn’t respond to me earlier. Actually no we have always been married, just not to each other but to our kids.” Does any of this constitute a divorce?<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n

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As Muslims, we must understand that Talaq (divorce) are not things to be taken lightly when considering doing it, and we must understand its seriousness of it. Talaaq (divorce), is the same whether the words are uttered in earnest or in jest. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Our beloved Prophet SAW said:<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u062b\u0644\u0627\u062b \u062c\u062f\u0647\u0646 \u062c\u062f \u0648\u0647\u0632\u0644\u0647\u0646 \u062c\u062f: \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0643\u0627\u062d \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0637\u0644\u0627\u0642 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0631\u062c\u0639\u0629<\/span><\/p>\n

“Three are serious when they are serious, and serious when they are in jest (joke): Marriage, divorce, and taking back (one\u2019s wife).” [Abu Dawud Hadeeth number: 2194\/ Tirmidhi Hadeeth no: 1184]<\/span><\/p>\n

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Now the scenario you have mentioned above is an exclusive scenario (in jest) which doesn\u2019t really happen. It doesn\u2019t show any sort of \u201cdivorce\u201d per se but rather just playing around. Maybe you have taken it a certain way but as a matter of fact, it isn\u2019t serious as the intention of saying such a thing has no connection to divorce. But what I would add as a piece of advice for any Muslim husband is that no one should go out of their way and utter \u201cdivorce words\u201d in jest (e.g. \u201ctalaq\u201d three times in jest, \u201cI divorce you\u201d in jest etc.) as it\u2019s a serious matter which is mentioned in the Hadeeth above.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n

Written by Maulana Burhaan Rahman<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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