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Fatwa ID: 06290<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Maulana Y\u016bsuf Bad\u0101t<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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If a person is married for two years but the wife is not ready to have intercourse with her husband. Both husband and wife satisfy each other’s needs in other ways. The wife is not willing to talk about the issue openly and rather behaves rudely about the subject when it is brought up. Is a husband selfish about wanting intercourse in this situation?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Can a husband divorce his wife and marry another woman in this situation?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Can the husband tell a third person, probably an elder to solve this situation?<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Islamically both partners in the marriage have a right to enjoy sexual intimacy. Intercourse is an important part of marriage. If it is not happening, the couple should address and work together to facilitate it. An appropriate marriage therapist or counsellor may also assist. It is not selfish for a spouse to seek sexual needs from their lawful partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Both husband and wife require emotional connection, kind treatment, safety, respect, love and loyalty. When this is present, it easily formulates closeness, bonds and sexual intercourse.<\/span><\/p>\n

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If after attempting all possible avenues, a spouse is still not ready for intercourse while the other wants sexual intimacy, divorce is permissible.<\/span><\/p>\n

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The great contemporary jurist, Shaykh Muft\u012b Kh\u0101lid Saifull\u0101h Al Rahm\u0101ni (may All\u0101h preserve him<\/em>) writes:<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cIf the desire to have intercourse is not fulfilled, there is a potential danger for abundant evil, severe immorality and indecency, especially in the modern era we live in, an era of much temptation and indecency. The rights that are mandatory through marriage are inclusive of both the husband and wife. A spouse will have the right to separate seeking divorce if sexual intercourse does not take place at least once in four to six months\u201d. – (See: Fiqh Al \u1e24al\u0101l Wal \u1e24ar\u0101m by Mufti Kh\u0101lid Saifull\u0101h Al-Ra\u1e25m\u0101n\u012b, Page 270, Muassasah \u012af\u0101 Li-\u1e6dab wa-nashr)<\/span><\/p>\n

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The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him<\/em>) said, \u201cIf a woman spends the night deserting her husband\u2019s bed [does not sleep with him], then the angels send their curses on her until she returns back [to her husband].\u201d \u2013 (\u1e62a\u1e25\u012b\u1e25 Bukh\u0101r\u012b 5194)1<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n

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Only All\u0101h knows best<\/span><\/p>\n

Written by Maulana Y\u016bsuf Bad\u0101t<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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