{"id":26909,"date":"2022-12-25T21:08:27","date_gmt":"2022-12-25T21:08:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=26909"},"modified":"2022-12-25T21:09:06","modified_gmt":"2022-12-25T21:09:06","slug":"talaq-in-mental-illness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/talaq-in-mental-illness\/","title":{"rendered":"Talaq in Mental Illness"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fatwa ID: 06412<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Alimah Zakiratul Hoque<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Hi, I\u2019m in a complicated situation here my husband has said talaaq to me on numerous occasions. He has extreme anger issues and also takes medication to help him with that after assessment from the doctors. Everyone surrounding him has noticed his split personality and is afraid of him. He hasn\u2019t gone back to get any diagnosis because he fears of people judging him.<\/span><\/p>\n

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I have a suspicion of a few things he could have also black magic might be involved too.<\/span><\/p>\n

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He says he suddenly feels so angry at me that he hates the sight of me. He tells himself in his head he knows I haven’t don\u2019t anything wrong but just feels angry. Sometimes he will remember a fight we had years ago and he will just feel those same thoughts and can\u2019t help but hate me. Once his calm he will beg for my forgiveness but it can take days at times to calm down. We think he could have bipolar disorder.\u00a0 My question is is my marriage valid or not I am very stressed out because of family pressure too I have children too so in a very difficult situation here.<\/span><\/p>\n

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I\u2019ve contacted his doctors to get much help as possible but they will only help if he asks.\u00a0 The only way to get him help is if he gets told that for people with mental health diagnoses divorce won\u2019t be valid only then he will get the help.\u00a0 At the moment because I\u2019m still with him he isn\u2019t taking it seriously. Both my parents have passed away too so I\u2019m literally fighting with all my siblings here half of them won\u2019t even talk to me I am quite lonely in this any light would be very much appreciated<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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The divorce of a person who does not have control over his mental faculties does not occur, as it is a condition of divorce that the man is sane (Badai Al Sanai, Vol 4, Pg 267 & 269). Insanity is to be in such a state that one cannot differentiate right from wrong, understand the consequences of actions, or control his words and actions (Raddul Mukhtar, Vol 4, Pg 450-451)<\/span><\/p>\n

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To determine whether one is sane, he should speak to a doctor\/mental health professional and get a diagnosis. If it is a mental illness caused by black magic, one should speak to a reliable Aamil who can confirm it.<\/span><\/p>\n

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If your husband did not have control over his words when he said Talaq, the Talaq will not be valid. It would be best for him to see a psychiatrist and get a diagnosis of mental illness.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n

Written by Alimah Zakiratul Hoque<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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