{"id":26911,"date":"2022-12-25T20:59:51","date_gmt":"2022-12-25T20:59:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=26911"},"modified":"2022-12-25T20:59:51","modified_gmt":"2022-12-25T20:59:51","slug":"if-the-husband-said-to-the-wife-in-anger-our-relationship-is-finished","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/if-the-husband-said-to-the-wife-in-anger-our-relationship-is-finished\/","title":{"rendered":"If the Husband Said to the Wife in Anger \u201c Our Relationship Is Finished\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fatwa ID: 06411<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Alimah Zakiratul Hoque<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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If the husband said to the wife in anger ” our relationship is finished” call his parents, and he did not intend to divorce, does divorce occurs?<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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There are two types of words which may cause a divorce: clear, unambiguous words (Sareeh); and unclear, ambiguous words (Kinaayah)<\/span><\/p>\n

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Kinaayah refers to those words which may be used in and out of the context of divorce (i.e., they are not exclusive to divorce but may hint at it) (Badai Al Sanai, Vol 4, Pg 281). (1)<\/sup> When such words are used, the intention of the husband and the circumstances under which he uttered them would be considered (Fatawa Hindiyyah, Vol 1, Pg 410) (2)<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n

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When a Kinayah phrase is said in anger, then the ruling depends on the type of phrase. If it is such a phrase that can only be for divorce and not as a slur or response in the state of anger (i.e., it cannot mean 1 of these 2 things), then divorce would occur regardless of the husband\u2019s intentions. If it is such a phrase that may be used as a slur or response in the state of anger, then the husband\u2019s intention will be considered (Fatawa Qazi Khan, Vol 1, Pg 411 (3)<\/sup>; Fatawa Hindiyyah, Vol 1, Pg 410 (4)<\/sup>).<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cOur relationship is finished\u201d would fall in the first category, as it cannot be used as a slur and, given the context, most likely was not uttered as a response. Therefore, divorce would occur.<\/span><\/p>\n

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(1)<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n

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(2)<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n

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(3)<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n

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(4)<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n

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Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n

Written by Alimah Zakiratul Hoque<\/span><\/p>\n

Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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