{"id":27281,"date":"2023-02-13T22:06:44","date_gmt":"2023-02-13T22:06:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=27281"},"modified":"2023-02-13T22:06:44","modified_gmt":"2023-02-13T22:06:44","slug":"a-lady-who-dresses-modestly-changed-her-dress-sense-after-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/a-lady-who-dresses-modestly-changed-her-dress-sense-after-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"A Lady Who Dresses Modestly Changed Her Dress Sense After Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 06503<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by: Maulana Usman Ismail<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I just sent a question regarding whether a lady who dresses modestly changed her dress sense after marriage to bright clothes constituted shirk.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I wanted to add this point too:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">What if the lady thought it was permissible to dress in this way to please the husband while being in front of non-mahrams?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I can honestly say I do not know whether she did it thinking it was permissible or did it knowing it was a sin.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Does the response differ based on her intention?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">She genuinely cannot remember her intention.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0634\u0631\u06cc\u0639\u062a \u0645\u0637\u06c1\u0631\u06c1 \u0646\u06d2 \u06a9\u0633\u06cc \u062e\u0627\u0635 \u0644\u0628\u0627\u0633 \u0627\u0648\u0631 \u0648\u0636\u0639 \u06a9\u06cc \u067e\u0627\u0628\u0646\u062f\u06cc \u0639\u0627\u0626\u062f \u0646\u06c1\u06cc\u06ba \u06a9\u06cc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u06c1\u0627\u06ba \u0634\u0631\u06cc\u0639\u062a \u0646\u06d2 \u0639\u0627\u0645 \u062d\u0627\u0644\u0627\u062a \u0645\u06cc\u06ba \u0645\u06cc\u06ba \u062e\u0648\u0627\u062a\u06cc\u0646 \u06a9\u06d2 \u0644\u0628\u0627\u0633 \u06a9\u06cc \u06a9\u0686\u06be \u062d\u062f\u0648\u062f \u0645\u0642\u0631\u0631 \u06a9\u06cc \u06c1\u06cc\u06ba<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0644\u0628\u0627\u0633 \u0627\u062a\u0646\u0627 \u0686\u0633\u062a \u0627\u0648\u0631 \u0628\u0627\u0631\u06cc\u06a9 \u0646\u06c1 \u06c1\u0648 \u06a9\u06c1 \u062c\u0633\u0645 \u06a9\u06cc \u0628\u0646\u0627\u0648\u0679 \u0627\u0648\u0631 \u0633\u0627\u062e\u062a \u0638\u0627\u06c1\u0631 \u06c1\u0648 \u062c\u0627\u0626\u06d2.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u063a\u06cc\u0631 \u0645\u0633\u0644\u0645\u0648\u06ba \u0627\u0648\u0631 \u0641\u0627\u0633\u0642\u0648\u06ba \u06a9\u06d2 \u0633\u0627\u062a\u06be \u0645\u0634\u0627\u0628\u06c1\u062a \u0646\u06c1 \u06c1\u0648.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0645\u0631\u062f\u0648\u06ba \u06a9\u06d2 \u0644\u0628\u0627\u0633 \u06a9\u06d2 \u0633\u0627\u062a\u06be \u0645\u0634\u0627\u0628\u06c1\u062a \u0646\u06c1 \u06c1\u0648.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0641\u062e\u0631 \u0648 \u063a\u0631\u0648\u0631 \u0627\u0648\u0631 \u0634\u06c1\u0631\u062a \u0648 \u0646\u0645\u0627\u0626\u0634 \u0645\u0642\u0635\u0648\u062f \u0646\u06c1 \u06c1\u0648.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0627\u0633\u0631\u0627\u0641 \u0627\u0648\u0631 \u062a\u0628\u0630\u06cc\u0631 \u0646\u06c1 \u06c1\u0648.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u062e\u0644\u0627\u0635\u06c1 \u06cc\u06c1 \u06c1\u06d2 \u0639\u0648\u0631\u062a \u0627\u067e\u0646\u06d2 \u06af\u06be\u0631 \u0645\u06cc\u06ba \u0634\u0648\u06c1\u0631 \u06a9\u06d2 \u0633\u0627\u0645\u0646\u06d2 \u0645\u062e\u062a\u0635\u0631 \u0644\u0628\u0627\u0633 \u067e\u06c1\u0646 \u0633\u06a9\u062a\u06cc \u06c1\u06d2\u060c \u06c1\u0627\u06ba \u062c\u0628 \u0628\u0627\u06c1\u0631 \u0646\u06a9\u0644\u06d2 \u062a\u0648 \u067e\u0648\u0631\u06d2 \u062c\u0633\u0645 \u06a9\u0648 \u0686\u06be\u067e\u0627\u0646\u0627 \u0636\u0631\u0648\u0631\u06cc \u06c1\u0648\u06af\u0627.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">(\u0641\u062a\u0627\u0648\u06cc \u062f\u0627\u0631 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0648\u0645 \u0632\u06a9\u0631\u06cc\u0627 \u062c 7 \u0635 105 \u0632\u0645\u0632\u0645)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Wearing brighter-coloured clothes does not constitute a shirk. If it is taken in the literal sense of bright, opposite of dark colour. However, if it means open-mindedness, the dressings of the immodest people, then it will put a sin upon the person.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">There are some rules and regulations regarding dressing in front of different types of people.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">The spouse: there is no limit as to how the spouses choose to dress for one another as long as it&#8217;s just them and no one else.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">In front of the mahram (brothers, fathers, sons etc): she can take her headscarf off.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Woman in front of another woman (Muslim): 1) Not to dress in a way where the figure is apparent. 2) she can take her headscarf off (at weddings etc) when it is segregated.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Woman in front of another woman (non-Muslim): 1) 1) Not to dress in a way where the figure is apparent. 2) It doesn\u2019t befit her to take her headscarf off.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Regarding the dress itself, the rules are as follows:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">A dress that reveals the figure.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">It does not imitate the disbeliever&#8217;s dressings.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">It does not imitate the opposite gender dressings.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">It shouldn\u2019t be worn to boast or show off.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">It shouldn\u2019t be bought out of extravagance.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Given these conditions, a woman should always be mindful of where she is and who is watching her. She should always dress accordingly. To please their husband, she must do it privately when other people are not present. If someone commits a sin knowing, it\u2019s a sin then that\u2019s more harmful. If someone doesn\u2019t know it and commits a sin and finds out after, then that person will be cautious in the future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Maulana Usman Ismail<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 06503 &nbsp; Answered by: Maulana Usman Ismail &nbsp; Question: &nbsp; I just sent a question regarding whether a lady who dresses modestly changed&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1183],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27281"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27281"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27281\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27357,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27281\/revisions\/27357"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27281"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27281"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27281"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}