{"id":27991,"date":"2023-06-20T00:25:51","date_gmt":"2023-06-20T00:25:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=27991"},"modified":"2023-06-20T00:26:13","modified_gmt":"2023-06-20T00:26:13","slug":"looking-at-a-mahram-with-lust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/looking-at-a-mahram-with-lust\/","title":{"rendered":"Looking at a Mahram With Lust"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 06658<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by: Alimah Zakiratul Hoque<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Looking at a mahram with lust<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Touching a mahram with lust<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Kissing a mahram with lust<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Having sex with a mahram<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Wanting nikaah with a mahram<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Are all Haraam?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>\u00a0<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">It is Haram to have sexual intercourse with a Mahram.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">It is Haram for a man or woman to marry their Mahram relatives (Raddul Mukhtar, Vol 4, Pg 100).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Anything which leads to a Haram act (kissing, touching, etc would likely lead to sexual relations) would also be considered haram (Maqasid Shariah, Pg 9).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Regarding wanting a Nikah (as opposed to getting a Nikah done), one should not act on it in any way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Ibn Abbas (Ra) narrated: The Prophet \ufdfa narrating about his Lord said, &#8220;Allah ordered (the appointed angels over you) that the good and the bad deeds be written, and He then showed (the way) how (to write). If somebody intends to do a good deed and he does not do it, then Allah will write for him a full good deed (in his account with Him); and if he intends to do a good deed and actually did it, then Allah will write for him (in his account) with Him (its reward equal) from ten to seven hundred times to many more times: and if somebody intended to do a bad deed and he does not do it, then Allah will write a full good deed (in his account) with Him, and if he intended to do it (a bad deed) and actually did it, then Allah will write one bad deed (in his account).&#8221; (Sahih Al Bukhari, 6491)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Similarly, Abu Hurairah (Ra) narrated: The Prophet <strong>\ufdfa<\/strong> said, &#8220;Allah has forgiven my followers the evil thoughts that occur to their minds, as long as such thoughts are not put into action or uttered.&#8221; (Sahih Al Bukhari, 5269)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Therefore, looking at, touching, or kissing a Mahram with lust, and having sexual intercourse with or marrying a Mahram are all Haram.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>\u0639\u064e\u0646\u0650<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0628\u0652\u0646\u0650<\/strong> <strong>\u0639\u064e\u0628\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0633\u064d\u060c<\/strong> <strong>\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e<\/strong> <strong>\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e<\/strong> <strong>\u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064f<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650<\/strong> <strong>\ufdfa<\/strong> <strong>\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0652<\/strong> <strong>\u0648\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0639\u064e<\/strong> <strong>\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649<\/strong> <strong>\u0630\u064e\u0627\u062a\u0650<\/strong> <strong>\u0645\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0645\u064d<\/strong> <strong>\u0641\u064e\u0627\u0642\u0652\u062a\u064f\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0647\u064f<\/strong> <strong>\u0648\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0652<\/strong> <strong>\u0648\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0639\u064e<\/strong> <strong>\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649<\/strong> <strong>\u0628\u064e\u0647\u0650\u064a\u0645\u064e\u0629\u064d<\/strong> <strong>\u0641\u064e\u0627\u0642\u0652\u062a\u064f\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0647\u064f<\/strong> <strong>\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0642\u0652\u062a\u064f\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0627<\/strong> <strong>\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0647\u0650\u064a\u0645\u064e\u0629\u064e<\/strong> <strong>\u200f<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; 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font-size: 12pt;\">Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Alimah Zakiratul Hoque<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 06658 &nbsp; Answered by: Alimah Zakiratul Hoque &nbsp; Question: &nbsp; Looking at a mahram with lust Touching a mahram with lust Kissing a&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[18],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27991"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27991"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27991\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28102,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27991\/revisions\/28102"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27991"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27991"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27991"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}