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Fatwa ID: 06674<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Alimah Zakiratul Hoque<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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I know that women only get one spouse, but men will have a lot more spouses than women. Do women get in anything more than men? Like for example, if a man gets 100 wives and a woman gets 1 husband, is there any reward that a woman will get 100 from and a man one? For example, a woman gets 100 pieces of jewellery and a man only gets one. So my question is men get more spouses than women, do women get anything more? For example, a martyred man gets 72 wives and a martyred woman gets 1 husband, so already her reward is 72 times less, will she get 72 rewards than he does not? Or how a man controlling his anger gets to choose Hooris, and this reward is specific to men, do women get rewarded for controlling their anger with something men don’t get? Are we equal rewards for the same good deeds?<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n

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Allah is just and He will reward men and women equally according to their deeds.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Allah says in the Qur’an (4:40):<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cIndeed, Allah never wrongs \u02f9anyone\u02fa\u2014even by an atom\u2019s weight. And if it is a good deed, He will multiply it many times over and will give a great reward out of His grace.\u201d (1)<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n

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Allah also says in the Qur\u2019an (33:35):<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cSurely \u02f9for\u02fa Muslim men and women, believing men and women, devout men and women, truthful men and women, patient men and women, humble men and women, charitable men and women, fasting men and women, men and women who guard their chastity, and men and women who remember Allah often\u2014for \u02f9all of\u02fa them Allah has prepared forgiveness and a great reward.\u201d (2)<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n

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And Allah says:<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cAnd do not crave what Allah has given some of you over others. Men will be rewarded according to their deeds and women \u02f9equally\u02fa according to theirs. Rather, ask Allah for His bounties. Surely Allah has \u02f9perfect\u02fa knowledge of all things.\u201d (Qur’an, 4:32) (3)<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n

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Mu\u2019awiyah ibn Jahima reported: Jahima came to the Prophet \ufdfa and he said, \u201cO Messenger of Allah, I intend to join the expedition and I seek your counsel.\u201d The Prophet \ufdfa said, \u201cDo you have a mother?\u201d He said yes. The Prophet said, \u201cStay with her, for Paradise is beneath her feet.\u201d (Sunan al-Nasa\u0304i\u0304, 3104) (4)<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n

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Abu Huraira reported: A man asked the Messenger of Allah\ufdfa \u201cWho is most deserving of my good company?\u201d The Prophet \ufdfa said, \u201cYour mother.\u201d The man asked, \u201cThen who?\u201d The Prophet \ufdfa said \u201cYour mother.\u201d The man asked again, \u201cThen who?\u201d The Prophet \ufdfa said, \u201cYour mother.\u201d The man asked again, \u201cThen who?\u201d The Prophet \ufdfa said, \u201cYour father.\u201d (S\u0323ah\u0323i\u0304h\u0323 al-Bukha\u0304ri\u0304, 5626; S\u0323ah\u0323i\u0304h\u0323 Muslim, 2548) (5)<\/sup><\/span><\/p>\n

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As seen from the above, this is an aspect of a woman\u2019s status in Islam which is different, and arguably above a man\u2019s.<\/span><\/p>\n

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One of your examples is that a male martyr will be rewarded with 72 wives in Jannah. However, you should not assume it means that female martyrs will receive 72 times less by default. Men and women are inherently different (in their desires and motivations, as well as other aspects of their nature), and Allah will reward us accordingly.<\/span><\/p>\n

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We should trust that Allah is the most just and that He will reward us all equally and not discriminate based on gender. As seen from the above Ayahs, Allah will reward men and women equally for their good deeds. We should not be fixated on the specific numbers and amounts.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Written by Alimah Zakiratul Hoque<\/span><\/p>\n

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