{"id":28409,"date":"2023-08-28T14:13:53","date_gmt":"2023-08-28T14:13:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=28409"},"modified":"2023-08-28T14:18:31","modified_gmt":"2023-08-28T14:18:31","slug":"how-do-we-reconcile-the-concept-of-kuff-in-marriage-and-that-nabi-saw-for-hazrat-zaid-ra-married-to-hazrat-zainuib-ra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/how-do-we-reconcile-the-concept-of-kuff-in-marriage-and-that-nabi-saw-for-hazrat-zaid-ra-married-to-hazrat-zainuib-ra\/","title":{"rendered":"How Do We Reconcile the Concept of Kuff in Marriage and That Nabi SAW for Hazrat Zaid RA Married to Hazrat Zainab RA"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 06742<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Answered by: Maulana Ousman Haye<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong><u>Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">How do we reconcile the concept of kuff in marriage and that Nabi SAW for Hazrat Zaid RA married to Hazrat Zainuib RA<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><b>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><b>Answer:<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Zaid ibn Haritha was the adopted son of the Messenger of Allah (May peace and blessings be upon him). He was very beloved to the Rasullah (saw), to such an extent that he was known as \u201cHibi Rasulullah\u201d (The beloved of the Messenger of Allah). He was a very pious man.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Zainab bint Jahsh was the cousin of the Messenger of Allah (May peace and blessings be upon him). She was a very pious lady. She was very beautiful and many proposals were coming her way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Thereafter, the Messenger of Allah (May peace and blessings be upon him) wanted Zainab to marry Zaid ibn Haritha. Most likely it could have been due to the piety they both had in their lives. For the sole purpose of piety, they would be a good match for each other.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">The family of Zainab were not very keen about this. So Allah (swt) revealed the ayat:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">\u201cIt is not for a believing man or a believing woman, when Allah and His Messenger have decided a matter, that they should (thereafter) have any choice about their matter. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly strayed into clear error.\u201d (33:36)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Therefore, we see that this marriage was wanted by the Messenger of Allah (May peace and blessings be upon him) for whatever reason there was. Perhaps it may have been due to the piety of both Zaid and Zainab. Nevertheless, whatever the reason may be, we believe this is what the Messenger of Allah (May peace and blessings be upon him) wanted and we shouldn\u2019t ask further questions.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Only <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allah <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(\u0639\u0632 \u0648 \u062c\u0644) <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">knows best.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Written by Maulana Ousman Haye<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">\u062a\u064f\u0646\u0652\u0643\u064e\u062d\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0629\u064f \u0644\u0650\u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0639\u064d : \u0644\u0650\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u060c \u0648\u064e\u0644\u0650\u062d\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0628\u0650\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u060c \u0648\u064e\u0644\u0650\u062c\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u060c \u0648\u064e\u0644\u0650\u062f\u0650\u064a\u0646\u0650\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u060c \u0641\u064e\u0627\u0638\u0652\u0641\u064e\u0631\u0652 \u0628\u0650\u0630\u064e\u0627\u062a\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u062f\u0651\u0650\u064a\u0646\u0650 \u062a\u064e\u0631\u0650\u0628\u064e\u062a\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u062f\u064e\u0627\u0643\u064e<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">(\u0635\u062d\u064a\u062d \u0628\u062e\u0627\u0631\u064a\u060c 4802)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; 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