{"id":28437,"date":"2023-09-12T20:34:55","date_gmt":"2023-09-12T20:34:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=28437"},"modified":"2023-09-12T20:34:55","modified_gmt":"2023-09-12T20:34:55","slug":"referring-his-wife-as-ex-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/referring-his-wife-as-ex-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"Referring His Wife As Ex-Wife"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fatwa ID: 06755<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Mufti Nazrul Islam<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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A husband initially offered talaq to his wife including getting the talaqnama from the mosque.<\/span><\/p>\n

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He then told his wife to get a khula. He then again changed his mind and said he would give talaq if the wife agreed to a 50% reduction in haq mehr. The couple has been living separately for months and the husband has made it clear he does not want reconciliation.<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. In a letter from the husband’s solicitor she is referred to as the client’s “ex-wife” – does this constitute a talaq?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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    1. If the wife gets the full haq mehr back through the English courts can she keep it, if the husband still refuses to give talaq, (even though he has no intention of taking the wife back)?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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      In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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      Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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      If the husband refers to his wife as ex-wife, the intention of the husband will be considered. (1)<\/span><\/p>\n

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      If he intended divorce by \u201cex-wife\u201d it would constitute an irrevocable divorce. (2)<\/span><\/p>\n

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      The Mahar (dowry) is the right of the wife. If he doesn\u2019t give you Talaq (divorce), you can absolutely keep the Mahar as it is your right. (3)<\/span><\/p>\n

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      If there\u2019s absolutely no chance of reconciliation and no divorce either, I\u2019d suggest following up with the local scholars in the community.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      Only Allah knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Written by Mufti Nazrul Islam<\/span><\/p>\n

      Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n

      Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n

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