{"id":28978,"date":"2023-11-02T21:20:36","date_gmt":"2023-11-02T21:20:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=28978"},"modified":"2023-11-02T21:20:36","modified_gmt":"2023-11-02T21:20:36","slug":"making-my-father-do-taubah-before-his-bypass-operation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/making-my-father-do-taubah-before-his-bypass-operation\/","title":{"rendered":"Making My Father Do Taubah Before His Bypass Operation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 06826<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by: Alimah Sherbhanu Jadwat<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Question:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">My dad will undergo heart bypass surgery and as we know anything can happen during surgery so as a precautionary measure I made him do taubah and tajdeed-e-iman (renewal of faith) with the words that &#8220;whatever kufr statement or action I have committed unknowingly please forgive me and I renew my faith&#8221; then he said shahada, after 2-3 days on a phone call I was asking him to do taubah again but he got irritated and handed over phone to my brother, is this kufr? I am afraid if my dad committed kufr here, also renewal of faith like this valid?, I am praying that surgery will be successful and I will make my dad do taubah in a good mood and insist he live remaining life in ibadaah<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Answer:<\/u><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Alhamdulillah your father took your well-meaning advice and made taubah, renewed his Imaan as a precautionary measure, and recited the Shahaadah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">His irritation was due to your telling him to \u2018repeat\u2019 the process, rather than the making of the taubah. Your father is in a stressful situation, thus you should uplift his spirits. Tell him that he will recover soon, and all will be well InshaAllah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">He did not lose his Imaan by reacting irritably to your persistence and he repeated an optional act. There is no need to keep asking him to \u2018renew his faith\u2018. 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