{"id":29340,"date":"2024-03-20T15:17:12","date_gmt":"2024-03-20T15:17:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=29340"},"modified":"2024-03-20T15:17:12","modified_gmt":"2024-03-20T15:17:12","slug":"husband-proclaims-himself-a-kafir-in-anger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/husband-proclaims-himself-a-kafir-in-anger\/","title":{"rendered":"Husband Proclaims Himself a Kafir in Anger"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 06988<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Answered by: Alimah Jannatun Nessa<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><u>Question:<\/u><\/strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">My husband in an angry argument texted me \u201cI think we should end this\u201d is this a divorce?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Also in the argument I asked him do u not fear god and he shook his head angrily and I said are u a kaffir and he said yeah. Is our nikkah still valid?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><b>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><b>Answer:<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">For divorce to be valid, the husband must speak in the past or present tense. The phrase \u2018I think we should end this&#8217; does not count as a divorce even if the wife replies \u2018yes\u2019 because it is a statement expressing a future intention rather than a present decision.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">It is important that we also understand that anger makes people say things they do not truly mean out of frustration. Nevertheless, it is a severe statement to proclaim oneself a kafir, and your husband must repent to Allah, renew his faith, and renew his marriage with you as it has been annulled.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Only <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allah <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(\u0639\u0632 \u0648 \u062c\u0644) <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">knows best.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Written by Alimah Jannatun Nessa<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">[Badai-us-sanai, volume 3 , page 25 , Daar al kutub al ilmiyyah]<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">\u0648\u0625\u0646 \u062f\u062e\u0644\u062a \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0632\u0645\u0627\u0646 \u0641\u0625\u0646 \u0643\u0627\u0646 \u0645\u0627\u0636\u064a\u0627 \u064a\u0642\u0639 \u0627\u0644\u0637\u0644\u0627\u0642 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0627\u0644 \u0646\u062d\u0648 \u0623\u0646 \u064a\u0642\u0648\u0644 \u0623\u0646\u062a \u0637\u0627\u0644\u0642 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0645\u0633 \u0623\u0648 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0627\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0627\u0636\u064a \u0644\u0623\u0646 \u0625\u0646\u0634\u0627\u0621 \u0627\u0644\u0637\u0644\u0627\u0642 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0632\u0645\u0627\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0627\u0636\u064a \u0644\u0627 \u064a\u062a\u0635\u0648\u0631 \u0641\u064a\u062c\u0639\u0644 \u0625\u062e\u0628\u0627\u0631\u0627 \u0623\u0648 \u062a\u0644\u063a\u0648 \u0627\u0644\u0625\u0636\u0627\u0641\u0629 \u0625\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0627\u0636\u064a \u0648\u064a\u0628\u0642\u0649 \u0642\u0648\u0644\u0647 \u0623\u0646\u062a \u0637\u0627\u0644\u0642 \u0641\u064a\u0642\u0639 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0627\u0644 \u0648\u0643\u0630\u0644\u0643 \u0625\u0630\u0627 \u0643\u0627\u0646 \u062d\u0627\u0636\u0631\u0627 \u0628\u0623\u0646 \u0642\u0627\u0644 \u0623\u0646\u062a \u0637\u0627\u0644\u0642 \u0641\u064a \u0647\u0630\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0648\u0642\u062a \u0623\u0648 \u0641\u064a \u0647\u0630\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0627\u0639\u0629 \u064a\u0642\u0639 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0627\u0644 \u0648\u0625\u0646 \u0643\u0627\u0646 \u0645\u0633\u062a\u0642\u0628\u0644\u0627 \u0644\u0627 \u064a\u0642\u0639 \u062d\u062a\u0649 \u064a\u0623\u062a\u064a \u0628\u0623\u0646 \u0642\u0627\u0644 \u0623\u0646\u062a \u0637\u0627\u0644\u0642 \u0641\u064a \u063a\u062f \u0623\u0648 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0647\u0631 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u062a\u064a \u0644\u0623\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0637\u0644\u0627\u0642 \u064a\u062d\u062a\u0645\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0627\u062e\u062a\u0635\u0627\u0635 \u0628\u0648\u0642\u062a \u062f\u0648\u0646 \u0648\u0642\u062a \u0641\u0625\u0630\u0627 \u062c\u0639\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u063a\u062f \u0638\u0631\u0641\u0627 \u0644\u0647 \u0644\u0627 \u064a\u0642\u0639 \u0642\u0628\u0644\u0647<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; 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