{"id":31455,"date":"2024-07-04T10:45:25","date_gmt":"2024-07-04T10:45:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=31455"},"modified":"2024-07-09T23:59:34","modified_gmt":"2024-07-09T23:59:34","slug":"thoughts-of-frustration-regarding-ones-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/thoughts-of-frustration-regarding-ones-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"Would Having Frustrating Thoughts Regarding Ones Wife Result in a Talaq?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><b>Fatwa ID: 07267<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><b>Answered by: Maulana Sarfraz Mohammad<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><u><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">I was driving today and was a bit frustrated. I am not sure if I said it out or was mumbling but for a split second, I was pretending that I was talking to my father even though he was not there. It was only me driving to work.\u00a0 My words were &#8220;I don&#8217;t want these women. Maybe I was frustrated. And I was a bit upset with my wife. Is this a divorce?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">I sometimes get a bit worried about what I say even when I am having normal conversations with my wife.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><u><strong>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><u><strong>Answer:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">For a divorce to take place it is necessary that the divorce be attributed to the wife. It is not necessary for the wife to be present to hear the divorce being pronounced. This is only if he uses clear words of divorce.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">In the scenario mentioned above the divorce will not take place since clear words of divorce were not used and it was not directed or attributed to the wife.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><b>\u00ab\u062d\u0627\u0634\u064a\u0629 \u0627\u0628\u0646 \u0639\u0627\u0628\u062f\u064a\u0646 = \u0631\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0645\u062d\u062a\u0627\u0631 \u0637 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0644\u0628\u064a\u00bb (3\/ 256):<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">\u00ab(\u0648\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0636\u064e\u0627\u0641\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0637\u0651\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0642\u064e \u0625\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u064e\u0627) \u0643\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652\u062a\u0650 \u0637\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u0642\u064c (\u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652) \u0625\u0644\u064e\u0649 (\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u064a\u064f\u0639\u064e\u0628\u0651\u0650\u0631\u064f \u0628\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0643\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0628\u064e\u0629\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0639\u064f\u0646\u064f\u0642\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064f\u0648\u062d\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0628\u064e\u062f\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u062c\u064e\u0633\u064e\u062f\u0650) \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0623\u064e\u0637\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0627\u0641\u064f \u062f\u064e\u0627\u062e\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0629\u064c \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062c\u064e\u0633\u064e\u062f\u0650 \u062f\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0628\u064e\u062f\u064e\u0646\u0650.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">(\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0641\u064e\u0631\u0652\u062c\u064f \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0648\u064e\u062c\u0652\u0647\u064f \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0631\u0651\u064e\u0623\u0652\u0633\u064f) \u0648\u064e\u0643\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0650\u0627\u0633\u0652\u062a\u064f\u060c \u0628\u0650\u062e\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0641\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0628\u064f\u0636\u0652\u0639\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u062f\u0651\u064f\u0628\u064f\u0631\u0650\u00bb<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Only Allah\u062a\u0639\u0627\u0644\u064a\u00a0 \u00a0 Knows Best<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Answered by Maulana Sarfraz Mohammad<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 07267 &nbsp; &nbsp; Answered by: Maulana Sarfraz Mohammad &nbsp; Question: &nbsp; I was driving today and was a bit frustrated. 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