{"id":31618,"date":"2024-07-11T12:12:50","date_gmt":"2024-07-11T12:12:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=31618"},"modified":"2024-07-13T21:25:22","modified_gmt":"2024-07-13T21:25:22","slug":"communication-problem-between-husband-and-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/communication-problem-between-husband-and-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"Delegating the Divorce to the Wife During a Miscommunication"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 07305<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Answered by: Maulana Sheik Abdel Ahad Imrit<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><u><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Please can you advise us regarding this issue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">A couple do not know each others language and use google translate to communicate.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">The wife wrote to the husband &#8216; I need some time and space I need a break&#8217;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">This translated as a request for separation. The husband misunderstood and wrote &#8216; if this is what you want and <\/span><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">how you feel then I divorce you, divorce you, divorce you&#8217;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">This message was sent via google translate. the wife received the message as &#8216;I&#8217;m coming, I&#8217;m coming, I&#8217;m coming.&#8217;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">There was miscommunication between the couple.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">The husband was under extreme levels of stress and anxiety possibly from some kind of sihr and from marital issues from the first wife when he wrote the three divorces.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Will divorce take place.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">2. if so, what kind of divorce will this be? will it be allowed for the couple to do nikah as they do not want to separate.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><u><strong>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><u><strong>Answer:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">From the husband&#8217;s statement, &#8220;if this is what you want and how you feel,&#8221; we understand that this constitutes tafweedh ut talaaq \u2018ala mashiyah, meaning the delegation of divorce is dependent on her decision. Therefore, by sending this message to his wife, divorce is not issued unless she decides to be divorced upon reading it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">\u00ab\u0627\u0644\u0641\u062a\u0627\u0648\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0643\u064a\u0631\u064a\u0629 = \u0627\u0644\u0641\u062a\u0627\u0648\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0647\u0646\u062f\u064a\u0629\u00bb (1\/ 402):<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">\u00ab\u0625\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0627: \u0637\u064e\u0644\u0651\u0650\u0642\u0650\u064a \u0646\u064e\u0641\u0652\u0633\u064e\u0643\u0650 \u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064c \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0627: \u0625\u0646\u0652 \u0634\u0650\u0626\u0652\u062a\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652 \u0644\u064e\u0627 \u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 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\u0648\u064e\u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0634\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064e\u062a\u0652 \u062d\u064e\u064a\u0652\u062b\u064f \u0637\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0642\u064e\u062a\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u0641\u0652\u0633\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0627. \u0627\u0647\u0640\u00bb<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Only Allah (\u0639\u0632 \u0648 \u062c\u0644) knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Written by Maulana Sheik Abdel Ahad Imrit<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Darul Ifta Birmingham<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fatwa ID: 07305 &nbsp; &nbsp; Answered by: Maulana Sheik Abdel Ahad 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