{"id":32035,"date":"2024-08-09T12:32:21","date_gmt":"2024-08-09T12:32:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=32035"},"modified":"2024-08-09T16:32:29","modified_gmt":"2024-08-09T16:32:29","slug":"the-rulings-regarding-visiting-the-deceased","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/the-rulings-regarding-visiting-the-deceased\/","title":{"rendered":"The Rulings Regarding Visiting The Deceased"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Fatwa ID: 07362<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><strong>Answered by: Alimah Saniyah bint Asrar<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><u><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">I want to know the ruling on attending gatherings for 3 days after someone&#8217;s death? In the gatherings, the community will read quran, pray durood etc for the deceased.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Carrying on from this, if I cannot attend the 3 days, culturally, we must visit the house for condolences.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Is there any basis of this in Islam?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><u><strong>In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><u><strong>Answer:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">In Islam, the maximum number of days one is allowed to mourn\/leave their daily routine for mourning is three days. The exception is the woman who loses her husband, who is given her \u2018iddah period for mourning.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Reciting Quran and durood on behalf of the deceased is a good thing and can be done even after three days as it is a form of Sadaqa jariyah for the deceased.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Offering condolences is permissible and is seen as a moral obligation to support each other during difficult times. It&#8217;s encouraged to visit the family of the deceased, offer prayers for them, and pray for the deceased.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Consoling a grieving family is a sunnah of Rasulullah (saw). Numerous hadiths recount instances where Rasulullah (saw) would visit families to express his sympathy over their loss. He would provide words of encouragement and support to the bereaved family, often highlighting the virtues of the deceased and their esteemed position with Allah to comfort the grieving.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Rasulullah (saw) understood the family&#8217;s pain and even advised others to prepare and deliver food for them during their time of mourning.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/app.turath.io\/book\/1681?page=7952\"><u>\u0635\u062d\u064a\u062d \u0627\u0644\u0628\u062e\u0627\u0631\u064a <\/u>&#8211; \u0637 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0637\u0627\u0646\u064a\u0629 \u0667\/\u200f\u0666\u0660<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">\u0648\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0645\u0650\u0639\u0652\u062a\u064f \u0632\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0628\u064e \u0628\u0650\u0646\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0623\u064f\u0645\u0651\u0650 \u0633\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0629\u064e \u062a\u064f\u062d\u064e\u062f\u0651\u0650\u062b\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064f\u0645\u0651\u0650 \u062d\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a\u0628\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a\u0651\u064e \ufdfa \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e: \u00ab\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u064a\u064e\u062d\u0650\u0644\u0651\u064f \u0644\u0650\u0627\u0645\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0629\u064d \u0645\u064f\u0633\u0652\u0644\u0650\u0645\u064e\u0629\u064d \u062a\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u064f \u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0622\u062e\u0650\u0631\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u062a\u064f\u062d\u0650\u062f\u0651\u064e \u0641\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0642\u064e \u062b\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u062b\u064e\u0629\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u064a\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064d\u060c \u0625\u0650\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0632\u064e\u0648\u0652\u062c\u0650\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0634\u0652\u0647\u064f\u0631\u064d \u0648\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0634\u0652\u0631\u064b\u0627\u00bb<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/app.turath.io\/book\/7895?page=1712\"><u>\u0633\u0646\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0631\u0645\u0630\u064a <\/u>&#8211; 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