{"id":32268,"date":"2024-08-24T14:08:29","date_gmt":"2024-08-24T14:08:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/?p=32268"},"modified":"2024-08-26T16:14:23","modified_gmt":"2024-08-26T16:14:23","slug":"the-statement-why-dont-you-marry-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daruliftabirmingham.co.uk\/home\/the-statement-why-dont-you-marry-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Can the Question \u201cWhy Don\u2019t You Marry Me\u201d Be Considered as an \u0625\u064a\u062c\u0627\u0628 in Nik\u0101h?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fatwa ID: 07416<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answered by: Alimah Saniyah bint Asrar<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Question:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n

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Can the question ”why don’t you marry me” be considered as an \u0625\u064a\u062c\u0627\u0628 in Nik\u0101h?<\/span><\/p>\n

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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/strong><\/u><\/span><\/p>\n

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The question “Why don’t you marry me?” is generally considered a proposal rather than a direct Ijab (offer). This is because it is phrased as a question rather than a definitive statement of intent. For an Ijab to be valid in Nik\u0101h, it typically needs to be a clear and affirmative declaration, such as “I offer you in marriage” or “I am marrying you.” The acceptance, or Qabul, must also be clear and unequivocal, such as “I accept” or “I marry you.”<\/span><\/p>\n

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Therefore, while “Why don’t you marry me?” might indicate interest or intent to marry, it would not typically be considered a formal Ijab in the context of Nik\u0101h. It would need to be followed by a clear and explicit offer and acceptance for the marriage to be valid.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Only Allah (\u0639\u0632 \u0648 \u062c\u0644) knows best.<\/span><\/p>\n

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